Paul Elam: Yes I Am A Bad Father!

I love Pawning these clowns!

Title of the article and the deliberately inflammatory picture is just beginning: As the attacks step up, so will I


His blatant suggestions that he is mocked of being a Jew is total lie!

Where is the proof?

There isn’t any. Above hated poster was created by himself!

Original article never mention his Jewish background, in fact they did not even mention his kids real name, even though his daughter was more than willing to expose him! Oh by the way he never confirm nor denied that he was beating his own grandkids!

Buzz Feed’s article (which I will mention below) is a response by Asian American community because he stated Asian women cut penis, and white men should never breed with them!

He was only criticize for hatred towards women, and not taking care of his own kids.

In case you guys did not read his article + video blog he stated Asian women like to eat human penis!

“But the dangers of Asian women aren’t confined to those conniving young women just off the boat from Asialand. For there are Asians who live in the United States as well, and if you go for one of those you might end up with … brace yourself … MARGARET CHO. Or you might get your dick lopped off.”

No, seriously. Elam literally warns men who are considering “going Asian” that they might end up with someone like “feminist idiot and unfunny comedian Margaret Cho,” or “Twitter fembot Suey Park,” or even Catherine Kieu Becker, a California woman, originally from Vietnam, now serving life in prison for cutting off her estranged husband’s penis.

Search the internet in vain you will never find any racist comment from Asian community about his jewishness despite him firing the first shot.

Buzz feed article was a response to his racism and hypocrisy. They have shown with fact that he is a snake oil seller lynching his victims coming out of badly divorce outcome.

Even when he had public fight with his ex in front of a synagogue it was him who tried same trick back and forth.

Following article was written by AVFM member which he himself picked!

“Zionist Collaborator Donald Trumps Proves Himself a Pro Israeli …”

You guys can google the title above I am not going to help support racism. But I hope many of you get the idea.

Speaking of anti-semitism.

 Did you guys know he even used racism to destroy fellow rival MRM.

He girlfriend Janet Bloomfield (a married Nazi Women!) wrote many articles about such and such MRM are run by Jews! “Paul Elam Admits That Jews Run The MRM

Incidentally, vast majority of his members are pro nazi. It’s not for nothing AVFM is called The Group Thirteen Jewish collaborator in Warsaw Ghetto.

His blatant hypocrisy seeks no bounds.

So what the problem?

Despite their name Men’s Right is not about helping men. Racism & Extreme Right is the core of their organization, the rest is just a smoke screen.

He always throw mud on others, than he turns around pretend to be a victim. He is a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Remember he start race baiting.

Let’s not forget this the man who hate his kids more than life itself just admitted that he is a liar, and a bad father.

Let’s start with poisoning the mind of kids.

“My wife was indeed very enthusiastic about sex. The naivety of my youth also made me pretty blind to the fact that her sexual enthusiasm wasn’t limited to me.”

Your kids are adult, and she has kids of her own. She reads what you write, and so will her own kids. Why are you creating a toxic environment between you daugher and her mother not to mention against the grandkids.

“There was an unending string of affairs. By the time we separated Bonnie had been born and my ex was pregnant again. As the relationship ended, I learned of even more affairs from friends who were silent while we were together.”

You never wanted to do a DNA test. Every single one of your article is a proof — including this one!

“In 2005, Bonnie contacted me by mail, as is said in the article. We exchanged emails, and in the first one I told her that there was a very good chance I was not her biological father, but that I would very much like to meet her.”

First off she “never contacted him. You both met in synagogue. You screamed at her the very words you admitted stated at end of the paragraph.

Oh, I understand you don’t wanna tell your Christians White Supremacist followers of your racial background. The funny thing is you are a self advertising Jew, how many Aryan looks like Seinfeld’s Uncle?

Let’s not forget that little spat you have “I was not her biological father, but that I would very much like to meet her.” 

That itself shows your insensitivity to pain of another human being! If doubt that she is not your kid that why don’t you ask her for a DNA prior to the meet?

Once proved that you actually are the father you will make back payment of child support?

Are you also going to be part of her kids life, will you help her financially?


“We talked on the phone a few times and made arrangements to meet.”

What is a point of a meeting with her if you are not sure of your lineage?

“When we did I saw a family resemblance, though looking back I am not sure if I was seeing what I wanted to see. I sure did not act on it.”

Again fool, DNA test.

“While we never got paternity testing, I was satisfied on meeting her that she was my biological daughter.”

Why not? Because they will give a legal leverage to get money out of you. This will also force this hidden issue into the public.

Now that she has kids of her own, she would want you to be part of their life.

“And yes, I did cry. Not for shame or personal remorse”

You got the Chutzpah for lying like a moron. But that’s all.

“It all could have been avoided with a simple paternity test that her mother would not allow.”

Why not do one now? Because you don’t wanna pay for financial support. It’s simple as that.

You don’t need to deal with you ex-wife, you daughter is more than amenable!

Again, because of money $$$$$$!

“She also alleges I had a drug and alcohol problem. There is some truth to that, though no more at all a problem than she herself had, including drinking and smoking PCP while she was pregnant with her daughter.”

One of the main step for alcoholics anonymous 10 steps is admit your fault, not balme it on other.

You’re still alcoholic, and quite possible on drugs.

“We were both wild, stupid kids. Sad but forgivable.”

When are capable of having kids you are an adult.

The fact you refuse to take care of your daugher, and be part of you grand kids. You are disgrace to a humanity.

Men’s Right & Conservatives upholding you as paragon of virtue only resolidify the fact entire entire community is morally bankrupt.


I will

Career Women in Denial


Writer/Actor/Director Mindy Kaling whines that she can’t find the “right” guy. Yes, we have heard this song over and over again. However, she is a perfect perfect illustration of a modern day woman.

What make her case even more interesting that her parents immigrated in States so her behavior ought to be more “feminine” unlike born and raised American girls.

Her personality proves that traditionalist are in denial. Importing women from foreign land  doesn’t mean that they won’t take advantage of the current system.

Like most career women this wonderful lady thinks that she can’t find a “good man” because of her career. When she “does”, she thinks: I will let you read what says…

“I think that when I go on dates, there’s this expectation that I’m going to have 11 martinis and pass out and spend the night really soon.”


Back of her book there is a picture of a heart. Heart is occupied with numerous things. Interestingly enough there are two sections for Nice Guys (small room), Handsome Jerks (huge room).

Could it be because?
You think all men wanna get into your pants?
You call yourself Misogynist?
You only go after superficial jerks.
You act like a 20 years old, yet you’re going to be 40 years old?


In Friends sitcom there is a poster (above) in Ross apartment. Which says in Russian “In Order to Build You have to Know, In order to Know you have to learn”.

Same technique apply to relationship, being a jerk, uncaring person won’t take you so far. My advice for Mindy is to look deep in herself before pointing figure on men.

It’s not us, it’s you!

Guy after her Vag!

The Mindy Project S05E04: Mindy Lahiri Is a Misogynist – 25th Oct 2016

Back Page of Her Book

Shackles Beyond Divorce

My ex resumed outside-the-home work when the oldest child started college. Now my ex is earning over $100,000 a year and has no mortgage on our former marital home. So I’m sure she can support herself.

Now I just learned, years after our children finished college, that nine years ago, my ex married her longtime live-in male friend. My ex did not invite our children to her wedding ceremony, nor tell them or me about her remarriage. But she kept cashing my alimony checks. No doubt, if I died, she’d have kept the insurance money, too. What steps can I take now?”

Men who have to pay alimony get stuck with additional financial responsibility of an adult woman who in most case can get a decent job, and can even have a reasonable career.

Yet most cases Judge look the other way, and do not care. Sadly, when same man marry another woman she will be financial punish because of his previous relationship. Talk about collective punishment!

Story in Newspaper is about a man who got stuck with alimony of an ex-wife who quietly married her boyfriend. She was collecting alimony for years yet Government did nothing about it.

You know if ex-husband forget to pay child-support, or alimony he driving license can be revoke. Yet in this modern day of information highway, one government agency computer can not communicate with another department.

I mean marriage certification department should have gotten the information that she is divorced, and collecting alimony. As soon as she got married, her ex-husband should have been informed of her status change thereby he would not have go through this mess all over again.

We should not waste our time, money trying to change marriage laws, divorce scam, or even alimony reform. We should just boycott marriage altogether.

It is a biggest scam of the century. It is nothing more but a modern day financial slavery.


MGTOW in Chilean Media

A Chilean media publish an article about MGTOW, and they compared us to Men’s Right Movements.

I want to clarify numerous mistake they made.

We are not try not trying teach “men to be masculine”, nor we want “women to feminine”. That is a Tradcon mentality (Traditional Conservative).


They pretty much compare us to Men’s Right Group.. Don’t mention that we are about boycotting marriage, or any financially binding relationship…. Yeah there is no “manifesto”. We boycott traditional relationship enforced by governmental & religious binding contract…


¿Conoces el ‘MGTOW’?


Why I don’t fight Feminism?


We all know the ups and down of feminism. However, the alternative which is always given to us is glorified 18th century traditionalist lifestyle. We men are told that go and work, and feed an adult woman who just sit home, and watch TV.

To them I say take your dichotomy, and shove it up where sun don’t shine.

Just like in the past men were sham for not willing to die in war by “white feather” campaign so they would join the military, and die in wars such as WWI, and WWII.

RBK give us a very good description of of Men’s Right & AVFM


In 2016 US Election, Republican are asking us Men to pick  their side — in this case “saving white race from hordes of non-white immigrants”.

What have they given us during Bush administration?

Insane Iraq war, and today’s Syria crisis is a offshoot of their blunder.Not to mention Trillion dollar debts — largest by far of any nation.

Best of the best American men were killed mimed. As a result they can not work in the industry, therefore we have shortages of labor throughout USA.

We not just talking about blue color jobs like chicken plucker, or even janitor.

These young men who died in war were well qualified for jobs like IT, civil engineering and more.

We suppose to vote for Republican so they can stop the immigration. At the same time they are doing everything that require additional men into our republic.

Sending best of the best men & women into war  which is causing labor shortages, and worst yet it has not serve our interest .

Don’t these dumb, dumb realize that their policy have caused more problem for us, and for our children.

We need to counterweight and bring pendulum back into neutral mode. But how are we suppose to do that?

The entire debate the traditionalist have is about immigration, and bad bad things “liberals” doing? Creating new voter suppression laws in Conservatives sates so minorities can not vote.

How about AVFM/MRM/MRA?

They are nothing more but Cheerleading squad for Republicans.

I use to consider myself conservative, however, as of now I am neither. I am just sick and tired of our party leaders bashing anything that does not fit into their set agenda.

I wish we can talk politics out of our community (MGTOW/Men Rights), but sadly we have to reveal the behavior of these leaders so we can move forward into the future with sense and logic.

Paul Elam Stealing Donation Again!


DNA Test Result


It’s pretty sad that government use our tax payer money to pay for all sort of things. Even for people who are refugees, subsidizing housing for lazy bums, even providing free medical care for stupid people who jump off the balcony for thrill!

Yet, when it comes to paternity fraud. There is no such protection. We men have to pay out of our own pockets. This should be mandatory when child is born so only biological father is financially responsible.

This just proves that our society is slumming all the way down.

Super Henpecked

Tom Leykis read a very sad story on his show. It made me go into my own memory lane, and I am sharing it with you here. I decided to use the same title from his show.

When I was living in Toronto in a high rise building, my next door neighbors were very strange couple. They were from Prince Edward Island. He worked in Starbucks, and she was a stay home wife on welfare. They were in their 30s, and 40s.

One day I was off work, and I decided to clean my apartment, and throwing some stuff out so I was coming in and out of the hallway. I saw a very old lady holding a cane, and standing in front of my neighbor’s door with barely a strength to knock on the door. In her weak voice she was calling his name. “Honey, this is your mother. Please open up.” Poor lady stood there for about 15 minutes.

Eventually, I offered her to wait for him in my apartment. I wrote on a piece of paper, and tapped it on his door.

I came back to my apartment, gave her a glass of water, went to kitchen to make some tea.

After the tea, I went to throw more things, and I noticed that message on the door was gone.

I knocked on the door, and his wife finally opened the door. She was in her mid-40, older than her husband, she had purple Mohawk style hair, “I’m Canadian” swinging bottom of her nose, a pin in the middle of her tongue, and cockroach earrings swinging side to side.

Her face was tanned to point that it looks like an overcooked meat. She had small breast, yet they reminded me of an old squeeze lemon, and frail just like her clothes. She was wearing a dirty smelly shirt that also covered her bottoms, it had ketchup spots on it, and pieces of potatoes stuck to it, and yet it barely covered her prison tattoos.

Any skin area of her body not covered with art work, was very pale white. It is as if her face went to the beach, and her body went to a morgue. To wet your appetite, she had a very high pitch rural accent – imagine Fran Drescher character in Nanny on crack.

Very rudely, she asked me what do I want. I asked her if her husband was at home, I could see him mopping the floor. “No, he is not, what do you want!”. Hearing her response, he skidded into kitchen.

I simply yelled, “when you finish mopping the floor, come and talk to your mom, she traveled 80 miles to see you.”

When I came in the old lady was looking at me with disbelieve in her eyes.

Our tacit communication felt like eveyons.

She was sad, frustrated, and very much out of place as if she did not want to be here. She looked around my apartment, and she saw midsize aquarium, dozen fishes swimming, underwater grass where tiny African frogs were jumping up and down, and shrimps coming in and out of a skunked ship right next to a bubble lava lamp. It cheered her up.

Somehow talking to me, and looking at my hobbies made her relax. Slowly she started talking about her life. I learned that few weeks ago; she lost her husband, and two kids in a car accident. Her last son, my next door neighbor is the only child she had. She had been trying to contact him ever since, leaving him voicemails, asked her neighbor to send him text messages, and even regular mail post about the tragedy befallen on their family. When all attempt failed, she decided to travel to see him.

A brief info about her last son. He was studying in high school, average marks, but doing okay. Met his current wife, his very first girlfriend, who just came out of the prison. Few months into a relationship she told him that he is going to be a dad, and forced him dropped out of school, and then bullied him to migrate in a big city to “man up” for his family.

Once they were in Toronto. They got married in court, later he learned that she had a “false pregnancy”. She claimed that due to her criminal record she couldn’t find any work. She was applying for disability since her welfare scam was running out. He decided to get a job in a coffee shop, and that’s how they had been living for past 15 years.

Poor lady waited in my apartment for five hours. He finally knocked on my door. She went with him, few minutes later she knocked back on my door with tears in eyes asking me to take her to the airport. I told her to stay in my apartment – she broke in tears, blessing me and such. I booked an early flight for her for the next day, and also drove her to the airport.

As a doctor, many time I had to tell the family when patient died, this was the first time I had tear in my eyes when I hugged her goodbye. I won’t lie to you, if he ever come on my operating table, I won’t be saving his pathetic life.

Seeing his cowardly behavior embolden her even further. Every evening, I could hear her screaming at him, her voice was slurring, and she was throwing things on the floors. He was pleading her, “sorry, won’t happen again”. Pretending, I didn’t hear anything I would go in my apartment, and relax.

Anyway, these episodes became more frequent to the point that numerous times residence below his apartment started calling the police. One night police were standing in front of his door, and she was standing right next to her husband. Telling the cops that “he had too much to drink, and he got excited, he is very sorry” pause “right honey?!”.

He was stammering “yes, officer, I am very sorry”.

Countless time she called cops on him for domestic violence. He would always come back to her, and take the abuse.

Luckily, very soon I bought my own condo, and I didn’t have to live near these trailer trash.

Divorce Advice: Delete That Number!


Drunk dialing, we all have done it. This is why once you break up. Delete all of your ex contact info from your phone, outlook, and land line phone. Not just her, her family, relatives, etc.

When going through divorce, you don’t want to give your ex any more ammunition than she already has. This type of behavior can result in losing custody of kids, and even going to jail.

In California, a drunken man called his wife during a nasty divorce. His wife lawyer played that tape and he lost most of property, access to his kids, and he had to a second bank to pay back end alimony — and it is a lifetime alimony!

  • Never carry a phone when you know that you’re going to get drunk.
  • Use pattern lock – and make the invisible so it is hard to use when drunk
  • Due to kids you need to be in contact keep it in odl school text book, and lock the drawer!
  • Go with your friends in bar so don’t end up taking taxi to her house!
  • Finally, just don’t get drunk during divorce, it’s hard, but price is too high for such mistake