Hope On The Corner of Misery & Fear

George Carling said it best; conservatives oppose abortion so kids can grown up to be dead soldiers. Now these un-aborted teenagers are also being used as a guinea pig to test driverless cars! I need not reminding you that these evil corporations are owned, and operated by Conservatives/Republican big cats. Or the fact that the only kids who were being transported were African-American, Latino, and other despise minorities! This is why children are being split from parents they will be testing products for big corporation!

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With all these things going on in this country. We long to see some hope, and even a tiny one so we can look forward to the next day. Recent ruling at Utah court has shown that all is not lost in this hapless land.

A man from Utah divorced his wife in 2008. Their names are withheld because ex-wife doesn’t want public to know what kind of a con she was running. Anyway, ex-husband was asked to pay $7,000 a month to his ex-wife. She quickly found another man, and she was gloating it to her ex-husband. Idiot women would taunt her ex-husband with text messages like “You ain’t half the man my new bf is! and rich too!”.

Luckily ex-husband used his brain, and took his wife to court in 2012. After six years of legal litigation the poor bastard found a right judge who stopped the alimony payment because his ex-wife was living freely with her new partner.

Gold digger’s new partner was paying all the legal fees. He was (and still is) paying of her car payment, free housing, phone/cell bill, clothing, even credit card bills. Remember, this is on top of the $7,000 a month she was getting from her ex!.  After spending over half million dollar unhappy husband got her off his money.

Don’t expect this type of ruling to become normal though. Most Attorney General are female these days. This is how they roll!

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But ask yourself is it worth the trouble?  Our solution to divorce problem is simple. Don’t get married and you won’t get divorce.

Reference:

Why You Should Never Date A Single Mother

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The only thing I can think of is Oh my G-D.

Daniel is a young man who is going to be 30 years old soon, and still lives with his parents, and he is trying to date a single mother.

Here is the caveat; He is British who is living in Japan. He is a walking talking caviar in Asia. He can date any girl he wants. The fact he decided to date a woman from online who is a single mother speak volumes of his own insecurity. This not meant to be an insult, it based on the account of his own and how he describe he post on YouTube.

I was going to review only one of his video, but I decided to add his next video to the review as well because after three date he is meeting her kid — doesn’t that all sound bit too rush. By the they met online — shouldn’t she take sometime — as well as he. Both of them don’t know anything about each other.

Not to bash a single mother, but most men don’t abandon their kids after marriage. He is rushing too fast, and she should also take some time before she introduce anther man to her daughter. Kids are very emotional and this can hurt their future development.

His YouTube I.D. is “Hiding in my room”. Later in his profile I learn that his name is Daniel. I am not trying to insult him, but c’mon.  By his own account he is one of those millennials who just start learning how to walk out side their parents home.

No secure job, future saving, and here he is getting into a mess that can alter his entire future. What if she decided to have her first kid because her husband was planning to leave her, and this trick did not work. What if she decided to get pregnant again. There are too many issues.

Healthy Relationship needs investment of Time.

This single mother works 8 hours a day, needs 2 to 3 hours times to travel from her work to daycare, and than home.

Where is the romance?

Before he worked out all of these things. He decided widen his mess by meeting the daughter of his girl friend.

His next video “I met my girlfriends daughter” is even more interesting. Again he complains that everyone is leaving negative comments on his video.

Well, denial if you put your life on YouTube you want other to comment on it. This is how you feed your ego.

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A youtuber name Jeff left a very good comment, and with this permission I am going to quote him in his entirety.

“Do you really need to be told why you shouldn’t date a single mother? Because you are talking a responsibility of another person. Also you are not mature enough. Your last video “Why I “cheated” on my Girlfriend – I’M ONLY HUMAN”.

Most of us who comments on your video do it because we have seen how you talk behave and react to little things. You don’t want to hurt another person while you are not emotionally mature enough.

Again the fact you have admitted on your last video that you have cheated on your girlfriend is pretty much a red flag. Kids are very sensitive to little thing and it can affect their entire future because you can ruin her mother.

Even this video you just admitted you are not mature, to make matter worst mother of the child is also emotionally unbalanced. Mothers are normally happy when their children are friendly and engaging.

Does it even occur to you that this might be the reason why her ex left her?

Last but not least you have no serious career, no future saving, nor you know what you’re going to be doing near future.

You are going to be 30 years old soon, and you still live with your parents.

We are not trying to hurt you, we are here to give you a decent and helpful advice. Take it with grain of salt — walk away before it too late.

This woman is a damage good, and you are grown up child who doesn’t even have money to buy a house on mortgage, let alone rent his own place.

You wanna take a responsibility of someone’s else kids when your parents are supporting you & feeding you. You are very naive if you think this will work out.

Finally, when you say things like I don’t care what commentators are saying. Then you all you have to do is disable comments section.

Otherwise don’t whine and complain when we review your lifestyle you are the one who is posting for public to see & hear, and review.

You put yourself on a fire pan, don’t crying when you feel the heat.”

We need to teach our fellow men why they should not date single mother. However, we also need to face the fact that most of them are not mature enough and they are only hooking up for sex, and single mother are lonely, desperate, and very insecure.

It seems to me “common sense” is not so common after all.  Perhaps Daniel needs learn from his own mistake, we can only hope the it’s not too late for him.

I stand by my advice that it is a very bad idea for him to date single mother. However, I wish him luck with his new relationship.

Reference:

Meeting my online Japanese girlfriend for the first time in Japan!

5 Reasons You Should Never Date A Single Mother

Family Day

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As if married people don’t get enough tax break and financial incentive from government for popping babies. We have one more day dedicated for couples making a Xerox copy of themselves.

In all honesty Family Day is pretty much parading your husband day. Notice all the place where “couples née wives” hangout. You will notice innumerable men pushing a baby cart meanwhile their wives strut in front them as if this is their day to relax and let go.

You know what? They are right about that. After all…

Most married couples live in suburbia – mostly two hour drive from the big city. This means an average Joe has to drive almost 400 kilometer back and forth.

Even if you live in cities like NYC & LA travel time is almost similar if not worst. Try going from downtown Manhattan to Staten island, or from Huntington Beach to downtown Los Angeles.

So an eight hour job, plus four hour travel time means he has only 12 hours left. Subtracting 8 hour for sleep (assuming his wife & kids let him) he has only four hour for him.

Let’s dissect this further.

So married man only get to “enjoy” four hour in a house he bought for his wife and kids (biological or otherwise).

  • Who is throwing the Garbage & Recycle outside the house (this include cleaning the bin as well!)?
  • Who is changing light bulbs around the house?
  • Who is removing snow from sidewalk & driveway, and salting the area?
  • Who is picking up milk and grocery after work?
  • Who is helping kids with homework?
  • Who is mowing the lawn during weekends?
  • Who is doing house repair?
  • Who is fixing laptop for little Johnny?
  • Who is searching for bad monster in middle of a night when little Suzie cry (Oh honey do you mind?)?

Oh last but not least – listening to mundane talk about what “neighbors are up to”, or “how exhausting it was cleaning up a house in 30 minutes & watching female talk show”?

  • How about talking to his parents making sure they are okay in their old age?
  • How much time can he spend in gym?
  • Does he have enough time for balancing check book?

Is he saving enough money for a car maintenance. Longer you drive vehicle, higher its maintenance cost, and shorter the lifespan. So four hour driving back and forth from house to a job means almost 80,000 kilometer per year, and this means you have to have a new car, and gotta change it every two or three year.

In case you are wondering – where I get the idea that husband have to do house chorus after 12 hours work & commute?

It was in the newspaper – house work is sexy – men need to do house work if they want sex…

Study: Women Find Men Who Do Housework Sexy

Men who want more heat in their love lives might want to grab a mop and a bucket.

That’s right after long odorous day you came home and you are expect to do house chores as if you’re still living with your parents, and milking cows.

Considering the behavior of some of these women – I can see why most barnyard animals are top Victoria Model down south.

For the uninitiated: Enumclaw horse sex case, our favorite bi-sexual liberal.

Makes you wanna watch Dinner with Andre all over again hun?

Don’t forget – most women especially after marriage don’t like to have sex.

Well, you say at least he has a weekend?

That’s when they have to do grocery. And of course she has to go to big city to buy things after all there is nothing in a suburbia (another word she is sick of walking around the mall when you are working from Mon-Fri) other than bottle milk & diapers.

Well, you know Walmart – she is a too much of a classy lady for Made in China products. Gotta buy those overly price fancy stuff mention in Women’s magazine, or Opera. Beside she loves big city action hustle and bustle – yet for some odd reason she likes hide in the middle of nowhere…

If you have kids they wanna go to a cinema for a new movie in winter. Never mind how dangerous it is drive a car with family in winter with snow on the road, and freezing raining pouring to make bad situation worst.

Hey studying next few chapters before teacher covers the topic sound like a crazy idea you know.

And you wonder why women live longer?

Oh wait, I am not done yet – rather she is not done with you hubby.

Gotta take kids to the park and guess who is running around on the park, and making sure kids don’t end up on the road?

With all the running around on the park, and heat means you gotta take them for a happy meal in McDonald cause you haven’t clog up your arteries with junk food.

Is it getting too hot in July? Well let’s drive for five hours to a beach, and don’t forget to buy all those unhealthy drinks and junk food from sidewalk cause your sugar level is too low to get diabetic.

Need I remind you who is going to make sure that kids don’t drown on the beach while she take few selfie of herself.

Hmmm, those lipstick really do shine under sun.

Don’t forget to take some “perfect” pictures of the sunset so she can post them on Facebook for her “divorce” friends so she can invite them during weekdays and lecture them like Opera “how to keep a man tame and insane”.

“Honey! We have to stop at a farmer’s market. My friends are come over this week for a get together.

You really don’t mind do you?”

Oh I almost forget, we have parents night this Friday – ask your boss if you can get leave work early again!

Gosh it really was a lovely day, oh look at the traffic!”.

With all the mosquitoes bites, and dried out sun cream, don’t be an insensitive jerk, put your kids on the bed, let your wife have a long relaxing bath, and bring her some wine.

Now, sit down next to her as she plans for next week trip & shopping..

Oh hey wait a minute Mr. Cowboy! She is too tried to have sex, and be a gentleman and let her sleep.

Oh look! Here cries little Suzie cause she had a nightmare!

Many of you say “c’mon man not all women are like that”.

All I can say is there is a reason why vast majority of the ladies always remind you that “I am not like all those women”. They have say that because they are like that – and enough of them drinking from a same Kool-Aid that they started to act each other.

Pick a boogie man feminist, media, and alien from Mars.

If you don’t agree with me; go to your wife closet and look at all the shoes she has. Which one of your last ex-girlfriends had only three pair of shoes?

It’s not for nothing fifty percent of the marriages ends in divorce, and remaining 50% are further divided between half waiting to get divorce, and other half are okay, or “willing to stick around”.

So the genuine marriages – so called “happily ever after” can be round up to 15%.

Yup that’s an actual figure about marriages.

So on this family day guys contemplate the joy & happiness you have being alone, and free.

As for getting old and dying alone. I would suggest to you volunteer to a senior housing, or assisting living and see how many old men are thrown there by their young wives, and even kids. They are living as if they were never married.

Don’t let the marriage mafia (tradcon & democrack) bully you into slavery.

We human being became master of this planet because we changed our lifestyle to overcome environmental restriction.

Marriage is an archaic institution which restricts our Faustian spirit, and binds us into government enforced slavery.

Enjoy this statuary holiday by staying single, and patt yourself on the back for not destroying your life like rest of the herds.

If you are married:

When you join her in the bed tonight enjoy the calming noise of her growing guts gurgling with all the beer, and cheese burger commingling in a growing tummy like a Russian Frontier as you masturbate your way to a next day awaiting for you to start all over again!