An Affair to Remember

Being saturated with information thanks to smart phone, tablet, and goodol’ boobtube (I love the used of classic specially it burns politically correct morons) the most important things are easily missed. Very few people would pay attention to any laws in the midstof midterm fake election & oohin and ahing over Hurricane and leeming fleeing from the same location umpteen time. Maybe, it’s southern version of S&M. To each his own.

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Hardly anyone notice that under traditionalists conservatives government. Judges are punishing men for dating married women. Naturally, these laws are supported by “Men Rights” because they got burn by their cheating wives, and cheered by their second wives who run the Men Rights clubs in the first place. That is why they are always running Soap Opera about alimony, child support their husband paying to ex etc. Above picture pretty much represent Men’s Right 95% of their leaders are women!

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Did you hear about: ” man who sued his wife’s lover received an eye-watering $8.8 million in compensation.” CNN Headline “A man cheated with someone else’s wife and is now paying for it“. How come she is not penalized? After all she is one who broke the vows. The fact is the only way she was able to cheat on her husband is by lying to other men by pretending to be single.

No one in the media care to the ask important questions.

  • What if the man met her in the club?
  • How is he to know that she was married? W
  • Why is it always men’s fault whenever cheating occurred?

Many people have asked why MGTOW boycott marriages, or livein relationship.

Well now you know!

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In Defence of Gold Diggger

Being burnt in divorce court. I naturally have no love for women who try to steal money from their ex. When I was divorcing my ex-wife I told her to take everything, the car, house, including the money in the bank. We have one daughter together I only wanted access to my kid. That’s all.

She still wanted to make it as hard as possible. At the same time she decided to move on with her life with another man, and she was always walking with him in front of my new residence which was 120 miles away her.

I could have called the police, but for sake of my kid I forego and suffer in silence. Every time she would pass by my new condo with her boytoy, and my little girl. I was happy to see my daughter face. They say we men don’t have motherly feeling, I say you don’t have heart to judge a father.

After my divorce I joined MGTOW. A group of men who reject marriage because court unfairly favor women. So why would I defend a gold digger? When a 70 year old man married a 20 years old girl. That is not a relationship base on deceit, but of a mutual understanding. Young women willing to be his trophy wife, and in an exclusive relationship provided that old fart let her be part of her will.

Story I am talking about happened in UK.

Court brands widow liar over £600,000 will ‘found in an empty Doritos packet

marsha.pngThe title of the story pretty much tells you all you need to know about the episode. A 20 years old woman married a man who was in his 70s. After this death, his life saving was split between three people. His daughter, a friend, and a wife. His daughter from his first marriage, Ms Davies, will receive around £430,000, with £140,000 going to an old friend and £25,000 to Ms Henderson.

paulette.pngHis marriage to her was for pure sexual services, and he should have paid her for the services he was receiving. Yes she is at fault too. However, my issue here is ethical, and inherent hypocrisy of traditional conservatives.

If you gonna do nasty with someone, at least do it by not tarnishing your family name. His behavior has been reflecting on his daughter who has gained alot of weight and was resentful that daddy was pumping, and dumping younger hotter chick and she will be treated the same way. Hence her 500 pound weight gain.

This is typical behavior of traditionalist. They want us men to get married, and be abused by the system of their own design. Yet at the these same traditionalist are busy abusing the law & order and blaming rest of us of their corruption. Men Rights group was created to “correct” the system. However, at one point we men realized that system is so corrosive to men’s right and freedom that we need to boycott marriage as whole. Solution is simple don’t get married at all, and no legally binding live in relationship .

This is why we MGTOWs are not against gold diggers, nor we hate feminist. If a woman get involve with a traditionalist man than he should be force to pay full. Hopefully this girl can find a feminist lawyer, and get large portion of the estate. As the marriage vows goes “Until Death Do Us Part”. Now part yourself from your wealth, and enjoy hottest weather of the underworld.

 

Reference:

Court brands widow liar over £600,000 will ‘found in an empty Doritos packet’

Divorce Preparation Part I

Matrix is a must-see move for its allegorical take on society today. Most people are just batteries (see the movie – I am not going to explain it here), while some are actively fighting the “agents”. Without a Neo, we are hopelessly outgunned, once the red pill is taken, there comes the self-realization, and desire for freedom and independence.

Once you have decided to go ahead for a divorce you have taken a red pill, unlike a hero in a movie. The only person who will be a savior in your life is you. Every preparation you make for upcoming detachment will be an added shield during a divorce fight.

Massive towers are standing strong only on few pillars, it was their careful engineering, and construction that resulted in a reliable functional building. Unbeknownst to its happy occupant enjoys, and passerby admirer.

Think of a divorce like a control demolition. Such a task require more than just explosive. Divorce is pretty the same, you need more than a lawyer.

I will list thing you need to prepare yourself before you can file for divorce.

If you just got married — and doubt started to occur in your mind. I suggest that opt out. Longer you stay harder it will be, and governmental laws such as they are, you will end up losing more than half of your property. Worst yet, more children you have with unhappy partner worst it is for you as well as for the kids.

You know the anecdotal describing a frog slowly being boiled alive. If relationship turns sour such an early stage. This is why you gotta opt out ASAP. It’s more than a love gone bad, your lifetime saving, 401k, even your IRA. Judges are known to hand over future retirement saving to a “house wife” because she was “holding the fort” and that is why you were able to work etc…

When you take this step there is no turning back, and even if you made a mistake, learn from it and move on. There is no point trying to patch a broken relationship. Divorce is such a painful step that no matter what you do afterward; trust is gone even if your partner tells otherwise. It will never be the same.

The irony is when unmarried unmarried couple have similar problem. They have better chance of fixing than a married couple. It’s  because they are not married to the government. Divorce court – aptly called divorce industry. This terrible corporation deliberately turn a simple divorce into a nasty fight thereby running unhappy couple

Following method are through trial and error of my own divorce. Hopefully it will help you make a better decision in a sound rational way. It also makes separation less painful — keep in mind it is a very difficult process, and it will emotionally drain you. I have met men who boosted themselves to be “machos” and “manly men”, once their wives’ lawyer was done with then, they were kissing gay men in every imaginable way possible.

So don’t be a fool!

You need to assess your own situation. This is based on where you live. I always recommend a lawyer; some of these legal services will cost you around $300 to $500. Also if you can spare some money, talk with two lawyers. Check the reviews online of the lawyers, and far from anywhere where your partner live.

Type of questions you need to ask your lawyers are:

  • Alimony — is it temporary or lifetime
  • Child Support how much
  • Property Split
  • Pension Split

Let’s say if you live in California and your marriage is close to 9 years + than you don’t wanna wait a year. After 10 years it is lifetime alimony.Unless, you are lucky enough on the receiving end than by I means wait until you get the biggest pay of alimony.

There two sections you need to work on self-improvement and divorce preparation.

Main Preparation:

Self-Improvement Divorce Preparation
Gym Save money for lawyer and other divorce cost
Diet DNA test of the Kids,
 Create a Food Diary Get a P.O. Box redirected all mail
 Stay focused with to-do lists Record her screaming & shouting hopefully with videos.
 Quit a bad habit Save three or four months money for rent, and move
 Avoid negative people Rent storage: slowly move all the items you need.
 Turnoff TV Rent a safety deposit box in Bank, and move all the documents there.
 Write your own blog Safe money for vacation
 Let go of the past Search for rental apartment, or a room, or even move in with parents
 Do Volunteering Work less than 40 hours to reduce alimony and child support payment.
 Meditate Never agree to marriage counseling

While doing all of this — make sure that your partner had her monthly period, and use condom, or avoid sex. Less you have sex is better, and there is an honor in your stealth behavior as in you did not use your partner, and you are less emotionally attached & feeling guilty. Remember it is not about displaying chivalry, it is about avoiding upcoming manipulation.

Divorce Literature

There are lot of books written by men about divorce.

One of the best book I have personally read, and it pretty much reflects what most men go through.

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The Broken Strong Man by Jerone L. Davison. The writer does an excellent job displaying the insight into the other side of the story relative to men who are dedicated to loving their families and are unfortunately connected with an unhealthy mate. For anyone that is dealing with confusion, infidelity, and trying to “keep it real”, you must read this book.
Author also does a good job informing his reader how he was able to rebuild himself hence the title “Broken Strong Man”.
He did not bar hump to get over his cheating wife, he used the most painful moment of his life and transform them into a tool which led to his current day success.

However, just for shits and giggles I gonna mentioned a female author Angela Martin who wrote How to Ruin Your Ex-Husband’s Life One Day at a Time.

Here is her interview about the book.

 

Red Flags: Nagging & Consideration

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You just came home, and your soulmate — the “home maker” just dump on you all the things she thinks you should have be doing.

Nothing about “how was your day”, “was traffic jammed” just start ranting and raving as if you are an emotional tampon.

This is a red flag, and if you just got married, I suggest you walk out of that door, and never go back.

We men can be emotionally traumatized just like anybody else. If you partner doesn’t show the consideration when you came home after long day of work and you are tried of her behavior than do yourself a favor get yourself a divorce lawyer.

You have every right to sit down unwind and eat something…

Do they really think we are stupid enough to believe that house cleaning takes 12 hours a day.

What cooking recipe are they discussing when these damsel-in-distress are swirling five dollar coffee at Starbucks?

Then there is no point sticking with a selfish person like this.