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Just as many people flee from relationship as those who flock to it.
Love can be an acquired taste.
According to the dictionary. An “acquired taste” is something that most people don’t like at first, but slowly start to like more and more as they become used to it. Beer is a great example of “an acquired taste” because most people don’t like it the first time they taste it. But later they start to like the taste…
One thing most people don’t realized that there is a reason our taste buds rejected the item initially. Our human body is smart enough to know what it need for survival; beer, coffee, tea and even smoking are not the items it really needed for survival. I am also guilty of some of these pleasures. Nonetheless, I do control the intake amount, and I don’t let it turn it into an addiction.
We size other person base on how they talk, how they behave, and body language etc. These give us a general idea if we want to maintain any contact with a new acquainted. Our attraction with opposite sex is usually the same way. It starts with an initial dance of courting, filtering, followed by interviewing (although we call it dating). If all things click we start boyfriend – girlfriend phase. This is when we start to observing the person, and watching for red flags. If all things are within reasonable bonds of tolerance and pleasurable we develop mutual trust, and even become emotionally contacted.
Sadly, bonding to a toxic relationship develops the same way. However, there are times we know the other person is very toxic, and like a frog in a boiling pot we suffer quietly, and drown ourselves in alcohol, drugs, or by simply overeating. Stockholm syndrome is a prime example.
As an mgtow I am not against dating, even a monogamous relationship. My rejection is toward legalized bondage – which is a government enforced marriage, and live-in relationship also protect by marriage mafia. Court system, lawyers, and the entire divorce industry is set against unhappy couple b pitching them against each other thereby making outrageous amount of money. That is why MGTOW movement was born. We are boycotting marriages, and financial havoc it spread upon single, and divorce men.
However, I am totally against Men’s rights because it is an unhealthy organization. The initial idea of the organization was about fighting for men’s rights. This means you can single, married, gay, straight etc. All the men get to pool their resources together and made public aware about men’s health issues such as colon cancer, and pressure the congress the remove the laws that is restricting our freedom, and running us financially through paternity fraud, alimony etc.
I start thinking about these issues when I came across Karen Straughan where she reveals the dark side of her. She tells us that the reason she join “AVFM” and other “Men Rights” group is because “she hates women”, I don’t just men “few females” I mean the entire gender. She goes as far as to say that she has no “female friends”, and she trolls around men because she feels “comfortable”.
Unlike most people I was never found of her and the reason is quite simple – her ideas are bizarre border line cultist, and way off the social norm. She hate other females just like Elliot Rodgers, and they ideas are almost identical. They both have manafisto! Go figure!
Take for example children benefit provided by government – in my area family who are earning less than $29,000 a years will be provided $500 per kid, this doesn’t even included income tax relief, as well as rent subsides.
What’s wrong with providing poor family with many kids lots financial support? Take From Claymore – Sydney, Australia welfare ghetto. These people have no incentive to be better, nor do they want to take responsibility of their own action. Some would say “what about the children?
Listen, adult who cannot feed themselves should not have kids – it is the most selfish thing they can do. So it is remarkable that same irresponsible loons go around judging other those who don’t want to have kids!
Let’s look at another poor community from USA. When you would think about poverty in USA naturally you would think of blacks, or immigrant in big cities like New York City, or Los Angeles. However the poorest part of USA is central Appalachian Mountains, mostly Anglo-Saxon, and Scottish, and these people live under $2.00 a day. War of poverty and other excitable label don’t change the fact that every adult is responsible of their action.
Most of these people in USA, and Australia can move anywhere in respected nation and they can get a job, and have a decent life. Yet the fact is they prefer to live where they are because they are given free money (i.e. Welfare), tax break, and vast majority of them don’t pay rent, and can even get free groceries. As a famous adage goes; give a man a fish and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime.
To support the gigantic begging system – this includes large corporation getting tax break, bankruptcy protection, and virtually every single politicians, and judges. This is why we need to steer the ship in a different direction – let every free person be in charge of their own action. If some dumb couple are making too many babies, and then they should feed them themselves, or put their kids in adaption, and such individuals penalize, also be stopped from producing!