Marriage Under Pandemic Locked-Down

Marriage under COVID-19 is like living in concentration camp, and paying mortgage for torture. Global pandemic is one of the best thing ever happened to MGTOW movement. Current lock down is like a two by four reinforcing the same message, revealing the reality. It has done more then anything else to convince everyone why marriages, and live-in relationship are detrimental to our health. Living with someone during this global crisis has given humanity whole new perspective on relationship. It would be interesting to see marriage trend before and after locked down. Assuming failing mainstream media even talk about it.

Which brings me to the title of this article. I was inspired to write it thanks to an angry woman who was shopping in a grocery store. She was a masculine-looking middle-age woman. Her masque kept falling off because she was shouting over the phone about her husband bed-wetting! Every time she put back her masque she had a false simile and apologized in a mannish manner. I can see why her husband keep peeing in the bed. Living with this loon would give anyone a PTSD.

Entire checkout line was blocked because she kept talking, and forgetting her pin code! She was shouting “I am HIS wife, HOW DARE HE! Never mind rest of us — I bet she thinks we are her Sherpa, waiting to carry her groceries! It takes alot to shock me these days but I was when I heard her saying “Yes! That idiot told My Penis Sister”.

What Chutzpah! She looks like a man and she is calling other woman a transsexual. Person on the other end didn’t get so she clarified: ” My god damn sister-in-law” I guess they have never seen her repugnant face.. She rattled on! “Oh, I bet he is deliberately wetting the bed. Being forced to live with this wicked woman I would also indulge in bed-wetting just so I don’t have to sleep with her!

She is a typical adult in 2020 America. A selfish, self centered, and unhappy when having to return a favor. I can only imagine how she talks to her husband based on her overly-stimulated conversation in front of the everyone in broad daylight. Since she is wearing a masque she knows that during global pandemic everyone is watching everyone else, and hearing everything around us. Yet, she shamelessly shared her husband embarrassing condition with strangers!

I can feel the agitation, anxiety, not to mention the physical distress her husband must have every-time he wakes up, and she screams at him for wetting the bad. This woman did not care that she is telling everyone of her husband condition, I can only imagine her screeching in loud volume, waving her finger strongly, pounding her manly chest. I would not even be surprise if her neighbor crowding outside her house listening to her drama.  What a hapless situation to be in during global lock-down.

Smartphone addict ought to be added into the red flag list. It is really amazing how oblivious people are when they are talking on the phone, and don’t bother looking around sharing their family life as if they are alone in the house. I mean just imagine this lunatic hogging up the check out line, and rest of us  waiting for the Cinderella so we can leave the store, and other waiting outside to enter and do their shopping! Nope, she kept talking on the phone continue complaining about her husband bed-wetting!

Gods must’ve been jealous when her husband didn’t conceal his fortune, That’s why they gave him an ill-bread wife for a punishment. She is too selfish to realized why her husband prefers talking to his sister about his embarrassing issue. She is angry because thanks to her husband bed-wetting, she is no longer the center of the universe. His hapless situation is a clear warning to the rest of us. Marriage is disease that destroys man’s soul.

Political Correctness Needs To Corrected AS Well

Imagine a woman clinging to a hood of a car, and her ex is driving the car on a highway, and swerving 90 miles an hour! Yet when driver is a woman PC police would shame a man for crying for help. Always protecting a woman who is trying to kill a man in a broad day light in front on everyone on a highway! This is why Political Correctness & Liberal are our enemies. This is also way female attempted killers get away with terrorizing their male victims.

Junior Francis of Miami, Florida lives with his ghetto girlfriend Patresha Isidore. Mr. idiot tried to stop mother of his kid by jumping on hood of the car when she was stealing his car. She decided to teach him a lesson by driving on a highway. While she was trying to kill her boyfriend, five year old daughter was left unattended surrounded by drugs and needles.

The saddest thing is that none of the highway drivers called 911, and report this horrific incident. They took the selfie pictures posted them over instagram. Finally he manage to call the police holding a cellphone while clinging for dare life.

Passer by driver made fun him when they saw a grown man crying and begging for mercy. They even encourage her by giving her thumbs up! Some even assume he is chatting while clinging to a hood of a car heading 90 miles an hours!

We can be damn sure damsel in distress was clinging to a hood of a moving car ever every driver would be stopping to help, tv camera crew would be there to show the evil of men’s nature.

Sadly the idiot victim decided not to press charges. Like most men he prefer to handle thing “manly” way. They will go back to fighting in front of their kid. Naturally, their little girl would act like her mom, or worst ended with some bad boy and get beaten up while on drug.

As for the rest of us. This story is a perfect reminder who we boycott marriages & live-in relationship. Avoid them like a plague!

Reference:

Florida Man Captured on Video Clinging to Hood of Speeding Car Speaks Out 

Video captures another man clinging to the hood of a speeding car on I-95

New Patriot Act

As if #metoo movement wasn’t bad enough. European decided to jump into the bandwagon. English translate of above video “At 16, I want to know who my father is” is all you need to know about this horrible single mother. Even other programs “Femmes SDF en FranceVivre dans la rue” suggests that immigrants are going after homeless female! As if it’s more likely homeless female are willing to marrying them for money & free residence + kids.

European fake media is using immigrants men to bash all men. Crooked media is suggesting that immigrant/non-white are making babies and running away. Since most white european don’t want undesirables in their backyards let alone popping babies. This is enraging them, and European governments are “complying” by  making more draconian laws against all single men . Manipulated public does not realized how fast they are losing liberty.

As P. T. Barnum said “There’s a sucker born every minute”. Using bait and switches with Trump as icing on the cake European version of The USA PATRIOT Act will be signed by European Congress into law. Euro gov prefer immigrant popping babies — it’s good for the labor shortages, plus most immigrant are willing to take any job to feed their growing and ever more hungry families. Why would they object to a willing slave?

MGTOW is becoming more and more relevant than ever before. No live-in relationship, nor marriage.

Avoid them like plague.

MGTOW: Indian CuckServatives

The good old saying “Men age like wine, women age like milk.” was Victorian way of talking about women and their loose vagina. Dick doesn’t shrink, but vagina surly turned into a balloon. Seriously, why is it that doctor always lie to their own patients, and then spread dishonest message so family end up fighting?

Many of us in West have an illusion that 3rd world shit-hole countries like India are safe heaven for Men. Boys as young as 15 are forced to marry older women, some prefer to kill themselves.

As following Q & A will illustrate to you. Indian are copying everything from West including feminism lock stock and a barrel.

A 25 years old Indian woman has a vaginal question. You would not believe how this nasty doctor responded to her!

My vagina is too ‘loose’ says my boyfriend. What should I do?

“I have been in a relationship since I was 23 and we have sex regularly. I am 26 now and my boyfriend is losing interest in sex as he says my vagina is becoming ‘loose’. I don’t feel any difference! Is this possible? Could it happen due to masturbation? What can I do to make it tight again? “

Here is the answer by Dr. Cuck

“This is a heavy judgment laden sentence told to you by your new boyfriend. How does he know that yours is big and loose? It is well possible that his penis is smaller in girth and so he is not able to feel. It is also possible that you are well lubricated that he could not feel much of a grip (this is especially true if your boyfriend has always masturbated using his hands).”

After bashing the boyfriend he later reveals.

“To some extent, vagina gets a bit loose after 2 years of sex.”

“To some extent” is an Orwellian way of saying if you are sexually active with multiple men, and shoving things like bulldyke! I will leave it up to you imagination why they are called “Bull + Dyke”.

Fun note with Filipino girls — it’s only six months! Vaginal Rejuvenation

Now you know who is the milk, and who is the wine. They are so big and lonely down there that they are letting sharks use it as vocational home. This is why Western feminists demands life-time alimony. Because there are no “treatment” when their holy grail turn into six lane highway. Combine that when their clock is ticking.

If you are willing to be a doormat, and walkin ATM machine, perhaps you wouldn’t mind little lack of hygiene down there as well. Yup, feminist also wants you to tolerate their smelly vag! I am not kidding!

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As some of you are aware that I am a doctor. I deal with lot of patients. However, this Indian doctor is as smart as our Ben Carson.  As most of you know Ben Carson thinks Egyptian pyramids were built to store grains. Although following NY Times video doesn’t show — he further went one to say ancient egyptian had star trek like technology to beam the grains into the cavern of pyramids! Other doctors like Michael Burgess believe that little kids masterbate in mommy wounds!

Most doctors are morons..

I suspect most of these new fade that is emerging among “New Millennium” like”Testing Boundaries” is for similar reason. Husband is ashamed to tell her, he ain’t feeling her down there. She willing to hold on to marriage until alimony kicks in. In the mean time she needs it bad, and he is only frustrating her.

To the uninitiated “Testing Boundaries” is about “wife” asking her husband to try new thing — like having sex with other men. As usual she persuades him to try with other women — most of them wanna shove something up his. Popular submission about Open Marriage by Michael Sonmore is only proof our falling civilization.

Reference:

Lose My Mumber

Recently I was reminded why I deleted phone number of unwanted people. When I received a text message from an old acquaintance. I told him “Please lose my number and don’t ever contact me again.” With some people you have to nip in the bud otherwise it will turn into a long good-bye that will never end. This is why MGTOW is very beneficial to Men.

Joining MGTOW community I purged  my phone, computer, etc of all the unwanted people from my life. I wanted a clean slate in my life. I didn’t want to carry baggage in my life. Therefore, looking at phone number of unwanted jerks  you’re only holding yourself back.

Let it go. Remember you already have enough on your back, and don’t need more salt on your wounds. We are human beings, we feel things, and that’s why we are distraught when other don’t appreciate us, or don’t take time our off their life to treat us as we have treated them.

Fuck them.

If they ever call you it is only to snoop in your life just tell them to buzz off. You can tell what they are asking as oppose to what they are saying. When they say “How are you?” they means “tell us all the horrible things in your life”.

Recent text message from low life traditionalist only multiply my detest for conservatives. He is one of those scumbag who think that their shit doesn’t stink. He became part of my social circle through my ex-wife. We were one those couples hanging out in weekend.

In case you are wondering why didn’t I just socialize with my friends, or exs? It’s because most of them are divorce, getting divorce, or don’t want to get married. Last group are my homeboys.

Her friends are of course still looking for Mr. Right, or trying get info on their ex who got married or don’t give a frak about her. Isn’t it just amazing after all the advance in “women right” they are still looking for someone to takecare of them on their old age.. Worst yet bullying me to fix them with my friends. Girls like these you don’t even wanna share this planet with them.

When he connected me this weekend I told him to buzz of I though it would be the end of it. When I went to see my family in Canada I learned that this loser contacted my family and complained about my behaviour.

My mom G-D bless her asked him don’t you have a family of your own? Why are you not not with your family on thanksgiving? Life is too short to carry unnecessary burden. There is a reason why our eyes in front of our head not at back. That’s why we should keep going forward and don’t look back.

Divorce Preparation Part I

Matrix is a must-see move for its allegorical take on society today. Most people are just batteries (see the movie – I am not going to explain it here), while some are actively fighting the “agents”. Without a Neo, we are hopelessly outgunned, once the red pill is taken, there comes the self-realization, and desire for freedom and independence.

Once you have decided to go ahead for a divorce you have taken a red pill, unlike a hero in a movie. The only person who will be a savior in your life is you. Every preparation you make for upcoming detachment will be an added shield during a divorce fight.

Massive towers are standing strong only on few pillars, it was their careful engineering, and construction that resulted in a reliable functional building. Unbeknownst to its happy occupant enjoys, and passerby admirer.

Think of a divorce like a control demolition. Such a task require more than just explosive. Divorce is pretty the same, you need more than a lawyer.

I will list thing you need to prepare yourself before you can file for divorce.

If you just got married — and doubt started to occur in your mind. I suggest that opt out. Longer you stay harder it will be, and governmental laws such as they are, you will end up losing more than half of your property. Worst yet, more children you have with unhappy partner worst it is for you as well as for the kids.

You know the anecdotal describing a frog slowly being boiled alive. If relationship turns sour such an early stage. This is why you gotta opt out ASAP. It’s more than a love gone bad, your lifetime saving, 401k, even your IRA. Judges are known to hand over future retirement saving to a “house wife” because she was “holding the fort” and that is why you were able to work etc…

When you take this step there is no turning back, and even if you made a mistake, learn from it and move on. There is no point trying to patch a broken relationship. Divorce is such a painful step that no matter what you do afterward; trust is gone even if your partner tells otherwise. It will never be the same.

The irony is when unmarried unmarried couple have similar problem. They have better chance of fixing than a married couple. It’s  because they are not married to the government. Divorce court – aptly called divorce industry. This terrible corporation deliberately turn a simple divorce into a nasty fight thereby running unhappy couple

Following method are through trial and error of my own divorce. Hopefully it will help you make a better decision in a sound rational way. It also makes separation less painful — keep in mind it is a very difficult process, and it will emotionally drain you. I have met men who boosted themselves to be “machos” and “manly men”, once their wives’ lawyer was done with then, they were kissing gay men in every imaginable way possible.

So don’t be a fool!

You need to assess your own situation. This is based on where you live. I always recommend a lawyer; some of these legal services will cost you around $300 to $500. Also if you can spare some money, talk with two lawyers. Check the reviews online of the lawyers, and far from anywhere where your partner live.

Type of questions you need to ask your lawyers are:

  • Alimony — is it temporary or lifetime
  • Child Support how much
  • Property Split
  • Pension Split

Let’s say if you live in California and your marriage is close to 9 years + than you don’t wanna wait a year. After 10 years it is lifetime alimony.Unless, you are lucky enough on the receiving end than by I means wait until you get the biggest pay of alimony.

There two sections you need to work on self-improvement and divorce preparation.

Main Preparation:

Self-Improvement Divorce Preparation
Gym Save money for lawyer and other divorce cost
Diet DNA test of the Kids,
 Create a Food Diary Get a P.O. Box redirected all mail
 Stay focused with to-do lists Record her screaming & shouting hopefully with videos.
 Quit a bad habit Save three or four months money for rent, and move
 Avoid negative people Rent storage: slowly move all the items you need.
 Turnoff TV Rent a safety deposit box in Bank, and move all the documents there.
 Write your own blog Safe money for vacation
 Let go of the past Search for rental apartment, or a room, or even move in with parents
 Do Volunteering Work less than 40 hours to reduce alimony and child support payment.
 Meditate Never agree to marriage counseling

While doing all of this — make sure that your partner had her monthly period, and use condom, or avoid sex. Less you have sex is better, and there is an honor in your stealth behavior as in you did not use your partner, and you are less emotionally attached & feeling guilty. Remember it is not about displaying chivalry, it is about avoiding upcoming manipulation.

Acquired Taste and Relationship Part 1

I am typing/editing this on a touch screen with auto correction on. Feel free to comment on grammar mistake or anything else.

Just as many people flee from relationship as those who flock to it. 

Love can be an acquired taste.

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According to the dictionary. An “acquired taste” is something that most people don’t like at first, but slowly start to like more and more as they become used to it. Beer is a great example of “an acquired taste” because most people don’t like it the first time they taste it. But later they start to like the taste

One thing most people don’t realized that there is a reason our taste buds rejected the item initially. Our human body is smart enough to know what it need for survival; beer, coffee, tea and even smoking are not the items it really needed for survival. I am also guilty of some of these pleasures. Nonetheless, I do control the intake amount, and I don’t let it turn it into an addiction.

We size other person base on how they talk, how they behave, and body language etc. These give us a general idea if we want to maintain any contact with a new acquainted. Our attraction with opposite sex is usually the same way. It starts with an initial dance of courting, filtering, followed by interviewing (although we call it dating). If all things click we start boyfriend – girlfriend phase. This is when we start to observing the person, and watching for red flags. If all things are within reasonable bonds of tolerance and pleasurable we develop mutual trust, and even become emotionally contacted.

Sadly, bonding to a toxic relationship develops the same way. However, there are times we know the other person is very toxic, and like a frog in a boiling pot we suffer quietly, and drown ourselves in alcohol, drugs, or by simply overeating. Stockholm syndrome is a prime example.

As an mgtow I am not against dating, even a monogamous relationship. My rejection is toward legalized bondage – which is a government enforced marriage, and live-in relationship also protect by marriage mafia. Court system, lawyers, and the entire divorce industry is set against unhappy couple b pitching them against each other thereby making outrageous amount of money. That is why MGTOW movement was born. We are boycotting marriages, and financial havoc it spread upon single, and divorce men.

However, I am totally against Men’s rights because it is an unhealthy organization. The initial idea of the organization was about fighting for men’s rights. This means you can single, married, gay, straight etc. All the men get to pool their resources together and made public aware about men’s health issues such as colon cancer, and pressure the congress the remove the laws that is restricting our freedom, and running us financially through paternity fraud, alimony etc.

I start thinking about these issues when I came across Karen Straughan where she reveals the dark side of her. She tells us that the reason she join “AVFM” and other “Men Rights” group is because “she hates women”, I don’t just men “few females” I mean the entire gender. She goes as far as to say that she has no “female friends”, and she trolls around men because she feels “comfortable”.

Unlike most people I was never found of her and the reason is quite simple – her ideas are bizarre border line cultist, and way off the social norm. She hate other females just like Elliot Rodgers, and they ideas are almost identical. They both have manafisto! Go figure!

Take for example children benefit provided by government – in my area family who are earning less than $29,000 a years will be provided $500 per kid, this doesn’t even included income tax relief, as well as rent subsides.

What’s wrong with providing poor family with many kids lots financial support? Take From Claymore – Sydney, Australia welfare ghetto. These people have no incentive to be better, nor do they want to take responsibility of their own action. Some would say “what about the children?

Listen, adult who cannot feed themselves should not have kids – it is the most selfish thing they can do. So it is remarkable that same irresponsible loons go around judging other those who don’t want to have kids!

Let’s look at another poor community from USA. When you would think about poverty in USA naturally you would think of blacks, or immigrant in big cities like New York City, or Los Angeles. However the poorest part of USA is central Appalachian Mountains, mostly Anglo-Saxon, and Scottish, and these people live under $2.00 a day. War of poverty and other excitable label don’t change the fact that every adult is responsible of their action.

Most of these people in USA, and Australia can move anywhere in respected nation and they can get a job, and have a decent life. Yet the fact is they prefer to live where they are because they are given free money (i.e. Welfare), tax break, and vast majority of them don’t pay rent, and can even get free groceries. As a famous adage goes; give a man a fish and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime.

To support the gigantic begging system – this includes large corporation getting tax break, bankruptcy protection, and virtually every single politicians, and judges. This is why we need to steer the ship in a different direction – let every free person be in charge of their own action. If some dumb couple are making too many babies, and then they should feed them themselves, or put their kids in adaption, and such individuals penalize, also be stopped from producing!

 

 

Having Children Is Selfish

I have graduated from a medical University, and I am working in a same trade. Nonetheless, as part of my post-divorce life I am taking some college courses for self-improvement. I am planning to do minor in cooking, and major in wood working — house renovation.

I love building things, and I enjoy cooking. These are my two hobbies. It is a very enjoyable to build your bed room closet, or redesign your own house, and build a backyard porch with roof.

I am good with home renovation, I can even built things like house closet, floating shelf, however I want to do with that “professional” touch that can only come with proper learning, and working with tradesmen.

I take these classes during weekend — only four hours sat & sun. Remaining time I spend with my daughter. As most of you know I was lucky enough to get the custody of my little princess. It’s so beautiful life. Just me and my angeles.

So why would I fathers say such thing “having children is selfish”?

Well, as part of my trade courses I am “forced” to take language course English. During class debate we were discussing “childless couple” and many accused them to be selfish.

I interjected and said they are not selfish. People who cannot feed themselves are more selfish for making than those who decided not to have kids. After all what is worst? A couple who decided not to have kids, or those who decided to have kids and can’t feed them, and don’t pay attention to their children.

You hear excuses like “Children are blessing”, and “nobody planning to be miserable”.

First off, they are your blessing, and my expense. My kids are my bless, your kids are my pain.

Some of you may remember the old story about the college girl who went to bed one night, and finally dropped off to sleep, but in the early hours of the morning she heard the clock strike two and she felt the door of her room was slowly opening. Terrified, she tried to call out in the darkness, but a handkerchief was whipped over her mouth and she felt strong arms lift her from the bed. She was carried downstairs, thrown into the tonneau of a large and luxurious Rolls-Royce that set off at high speed. After a long ride she was lifted out and carried into the large hall of a vast and palatial mansion, up marble stairs, and into an elegantly appointed room, where she was thrown on the bed. Only then did she see her captor clearly. He was a strong and handsome man attired in faultless evening dress. He stood by the bed, looking down at her speculatively and silently. She tried to speak, and at last she was able to say whimperingly, “What, oh, what are you going to do to me?” The man shrugged his shoulders. “How should I know?” he said. “This is your dream.”

The story is absurd, of course, but it owes what little humor it possesses to its equivocal play on the mystery of our own consciousness. A dream is by definition a series of sensations that occur in the brain when both our senses of perception and our powers of will and reason are in abeyance, so that we have no control over that flux of sensations.

But in our waking hours we must, if we are rational, make our decisions on the basis of the most objective and cold-blooded estimates that we can make: estimates of the forces and tendencies in the world about us; estimates of the realities with which we must deal; remembering always that nothing is likely to happen just because we think it’s good, or unlikely to happen just because we think it’s evil.

So how is it those who cannot feed themselves decided to make children, and then demand rest of us hard working people to feed their family.

What is even worst when couples who cannot even take care themselves decided to pop multiple kids thereby drowning into further poverty and despair?

We as society are told to donate money for children who are starving, and only have a rag to cover their body.

Nobody ask who sire these children? Why didn’t they think about when they were having sex? Some traditionalist (both conservatives & democrat) barks at us that it’s not a fault of a mother who is poor, and her child is crying because there is not food in the house.

Who forced these women to have kids? If you’re dating, or married a loser why would you expect a better outcome? Even in 3rd world countries women are now provided secret contraceptive services where they can stop pregnancy. Children should not be created by couples who cannot take care of themselves. You made a Xerox copy of yourself, now pay for your mistake. Don’t expect me to feed their misfortunate children.

Many popular people were born in poverty. Take Nikola Tesla, Jack London, Louis Ferdinand Cline, or Feodor Dostoevsky.

Consider the four outstanding people I mentioned. Neither Celine, nor London was leftist, although Tesla, and Dostoevsky were conservatives, and none of four was wealthy or considered a snob. London in fact was an illegitimate child raised in poverty. At the age of 13 he was working 12 hours a day in a cannery for ten cents. These people learn from their parent’s mistake thus given birth to modern day movement of family planning.

Two kids and a white picket fence is not a middle class dream. It is a responsible choice for couples thinking of their own children future and their own future retirement. So called poor couple popping out five kids, and living in a subside house, and lining up for even more welfare are selfish, deceitful, and harmful to our society for their destructive and parasitic activities.

But think of the children?

Again, I did not make them therefore they are not my responsibility. I did not print a Xerox copy of myself from your wound therefore don’t expect me to be financially responsible.

We cannot legally drive a car without insurance, and some states criminals, cannot even vote in election. Yet we let these same irresponsible people are allowed to make kids, and our government make us pay for their mistake rather than penalize them.

How come our leading literary light is not warning us about destructive intention of socialism? Did all our writers got killed during, or swollen up during 60s hippy revolution? I don’t know the answer of these questions. But I can tell you is that both parties (democrats & conservative) bash “Putin (i.e. communism/socialism) yet their policies mirror the very villain they demonize.

Perhaps most writers don’t want write what ails our society, after all most people don’t do series reading anyway. I mean how many people have read Gulag Archipelago, or Fahrenheit 451, and compare them present day political correctness, and self-imposed censorship?

Tell vast majority of the American that don’t make babies if you can’t feed them won’t get you a chair in the hall of avant-garde.

So what the solution? One can see modern media, and even literature and rest of modern culture is a wasteland, devoid of real spirit, and real genius of true independent thinker. Modern politics is stuck in a convulsion and toxic dichotomy; question Trump, and you are leftish, praise Trump and be parepare to be call a racist and an extremist.

Civilizations are like a human body. When nations are in their prime they are moral, and productive like 20 years old Olympic runner. When they past their peak they turned into a nightmare envision by George Orwell in 1984.

Have we passed our peak like Roman Empire? Is this why we see our institutions, and courts corrupting us rather than uplifting our people.

If not than how come our modern culture does not inspire our people to fight welfare bum instead it victimizes and exploits and eventually financially punish hard working people?

Reference:

No Kidding: Defending the child-free life

5 Things ‘Childfree’ People Want You To Know

The women who say they are happy to be child-free

The parent trap: Why child-free people are happier

 

 

 

Commitment Phobia = Bully

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Imagine you are a 16 years old girl in a school, and a popular school jock come to you and demand sex. You say no to him, and he verbally pressure by suggesting that you have a phobia about sex, and fear of penetration. Than he suggest that you go to a psychiatrist for a therapy.

Above scenario is no different then a woman forcing a man into a legally binding relationship.I know I am generalizing here, it is because it is mostly women who force men into a “commitment”. You know “biological clock is ticking”, don’t waste my “valuable time”. Why is it okay for them to have lots of fun in their 20s, and even early 30s, however a guy who was basically a poindexter in his 20s studying in library, saving money in IRA, and 401k. Now that he is ready to have fun – he is told to “commit”, he did commit to success, and he is committing his life to fun, and he is shamed for it.

Outrageous!

Most men are quite happy with their ongoing arrangement, sex on request, and time alone whenever they want.

The fact is 50% of the marriages end in divorce. So taking your time before you legally “commit” is a  smart choice. Anyway who tells you that you are a “commitment phobic” is a bully.

This is a biggest red flag. Run Run Run!!!!!!!!

Marriage mafia is nothing more but a bully, using psycho babble to manipulate and suppress individual right into a legally binding relationship.

As one of my friend reminded me recently that so called “common sense” is not so common after all. Vast majority of us are little bit lemmings, and we ended up doing thing like the neighbor next to us. This is a an old habit, it part of our tribal mentality when we use to huddle together for protection, hunting together for food etc.

Ask an average person in USA — specially conservatives why is not like like communism, or socialism for us to have free school for kids, and pension for elderly, and even a free sidewalk, or street light at night, fee 911 calls for police, or ambulance? Yet it not okay for us to have government run free health care system?

Well, they will go through various mental gymnastics to give you an explanation, albeit not very convincing one. I am quite sure you have put enough doubt in them.

This is same issue we have with media, and even with medical system. Vast majority of a medical professional are gear toward “pro family mafia”. This means an average single man, and women had to pay tax not only for us services he is using, but also for school, and welfare program gear toward people who are can not even afford to pay for their everyday expense.

Look at the salary of psychiatrist!

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Even a decent psychiatrist in his field makes well over 125,000 a years. These doctors know  which side of the bread the butter is on and they are not going to the buck the trend, and lose their cushy income for rightness, and morality. That is why thy will not call women bully for forcing their sex partner into a marriage — another word legally binding slavery.

Think about it. A person in a relationship saw few red flag signs, not serious enough to break up, but nonetheless noticeable in way to put relationship in a “probationary period”. Or, it could be that a man just came out of a very bad marriage, and he did not want to entangle into a legal, and financial mess. There could be millions of reason. Yet, theme is always “fear of commitment”.

Commitment to who?

By Forcing hesitant party into a legally binding relationship, it creates an environment where divorce seemly likely choice. It’s not for nothing more then 50% of the marriage ends in divorce. Rather than praising so called “commitment phobic” of being a careful shopping he/she is bully and harass into a messy marriage which will benefit courts, lawyers, and judges. Even banks benefit from divorce, vast majority of the time men ended up in bankruptcy lose their entire saving, and many commit suicide.

So it is left on us to expose the most simple thing to an average Joe.

Not wanting to marry someone — even if you are dating them is not a phobia. It is your choice, and the person who is forcing you into a unwanted relationship is a bully.

The course of action would be to breakup, and move on. Give yourself sometime before you jump into a next relationship.

Married Men & MGTOW

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Being married means you are willing to take a risk to build a family, which means being a husband, father, and grandfather.

MGTOW men reject marriage, because it legally binds men to share their wealth, property, and provide financial support to their ex-wives (in some case for lifetime like California). Due to this risk, they are willing stay single and remain eternal bachelor for rest of their life — that is until law are change and they totally fair toward both gender.

MGTOW is a community that reject marriage, and any form of relation that can result in a financial and legal penalty.

Look at the most popular organizations like Knight and monk. Their religious facade can be interpreted as a tacit shelter to avoid marriage.

Concept of MGTOW may sound like a fairly new idea. However, this is an old idea going back to thousands of years. Unlike the past now we have a label. We are gathering under the same umbrella. This has given a chance to share our personal story, and help others with likeminded ideas to avoid the mistake we have made, and shoot for the star.