Bizarre Men’s Right Conference

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Men’s Right conferences are a joke. I would rather watch reports about Jimmy Butler and why he is sitting out the game. That would be a better #WednesdayWisdom than anything these joker have to say. Just take a look at above pictures plastered all over men’s right conference. Mens were looking at these pictures as if they are shopping for future wife. It is very strange that an organization that claims to be fighting for better treatment of men is packed with angry women!

Conference organizer Janet Bloomfield is a nut case White Supremacist. Some of you may remember Janet Bloomfield’s poetry :

Allah Is Our Enemy
Islam Must Die
Keep Burning Quran
Or White Race Would Die

RBK even made a series about her called:

Janet Bloomfield (JudgyBitch) on trial

She even admits that she is crazy! For her AVFM interview she said that she would have sex with her kids so they don’t get sexually transmissted dieases from niggers, and wetback.

janet.pngNaturally, AVFM Nazi leader Paul Elam start publishing her works. Anyone who protested against her inflammatory & poisonous diatribe was banned by Men’s Right & AVFM. Way back in 90s she was on IRC channels like African-American,  Jews, and Islam/Muslim telling them that they must all die. Her internet provider even banned her. Now she hides from her neighbor, and only socialize online with Paul Elam. In this conference she was fighting her husband and he was demanding kids DNA test. While this drama was going on an old white dude slip her his card and smacked on her ass.

Her reaction was kinda like this:

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Even their promoted literature is mostly written by women, and free articles and brochures collection of porn, and female health & sexuality. One paper talked about how to ask for sex when your wife has breast cancer, another was about divorce cost vs vaginoplasty etc, and innumerable reviews by happy wives about medical procedure “How doctor tighten my loose vagina”. Things like alimony, paternity fraud are not discuss. In fact these discussion are discourage because men in these conference are trying to find a new wife.

Books & Literatures promoted by Men’s Right are just as bad. There was table with promotional materials, and recommended books. 90% of the writers are female writers. Book titles were like “How to Find a Wife like Me”. This $200 book had her black & white picture showing the things she claims to be doing to her husband.

One male author claimed to be a world’s best gay author – a proud anti-immigrant, sealed navy veteran, and die-hard men activist. There were numerous articles printed from the web. One of them was called “Confession: I’m A Chronic Female Masturbator“. Beer belly women were standing by the table eying any man who would make the mistake of going near them.

As for socializing… Guys in their 30s, 40s were going around and harassing married women, or getting rejected by fat hairy girls. One dude sandy blonde hair, with pink polka dot shirt was sitting on a chair and tightly holding it with his left hand, and his right hand was dug deep his pant’s pocket which was moving back and forth like he was masturbating furiously. All the girls were running away from him. These chicks were like Yetis. You know, the abominable Snowman, or, in this case, Snowwomen!

A very fat guy calling himself “Doctor” was handing out a flyer “How an enema can  save marriages”. Flyer also stated “Made in USA”.

Another young men in his 20s was handing out cards for his Facebook’s men community “Public Masturbation Trench-Coats“. Someone asked him how is it related to “Men Rights”. He responded “As long as men (punching his chest) are forced to wear an underwear we ain’t free”.

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Male organizer of Men’s right are just as insane. Read Matt in his own words!

“I’m just gonna come out and say it: I love insecure women.

Whenever a girl I’m talking to brags about how she’s “confident” and “strong,” I can feel my dick deflating like a punctured tire. I’d still bang her, of course; a repellent personality doesn’t negate the fact that she has a slammin’ body. But a crucial part of the attraction is lost. I’d be less offended if she ripped a fart in my face.”

Right now he is dating a 50 years old an illegal immigrant from Poland. She has kids older than him! He is collecting money to write an article about his future wife country!

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Men’s Right and AVFM are 2nd wives club, and run by women. Mostly racist white women in their 40s & 50s. Men who run these organization are sending sexually explicative text messages to their own mothers, and daughters! Members of “Mens Rights” are chronic masturbator, and porn addicts. Even feminist ignores these losers.

This is why we MGTOW must remind everyone why we must avoid these peverts and their snake oil sellers.

Men Right AKA 2nd Wife Club

Men Rights clubs should be called 2nd Wives Club since virtually all of them are run by women! This months men’s conference consisted of a Transsexual paying alimony, and his 2nd wife was talking about helping her husband with dilators. Married to him probably caused his 1st wife PTSD for life. But seriously, what a joke this club is.

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Everyone of their conferences have four five women, a homosexual, and one or two minority.

In case you think this is a fluke. Even their websites’ admins and moderators are angry 2nd wives over alimony or day-to-day Soap Opera.

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Did you catch a bit of an irony above? She is telling men that they (Jews) are censoring their “conference”. While she is the one deleting and removing everyone posting.

She call herself “stay at home mom”, but who the hell is watching her kids while she spends over 60 hours a week monitoring men right’s sites? She is moderator + administrator, and senior advisor of men’s right clubs.

When Paul Elam scandal broke out (he was using Men’s Right to avoid paying child support, and collection close to a million from “men’s fund”). She was censoring everyone posting and collecting the money. There were other women who were cheating with Paul Elam while married to their husbands. Talk about irony!

This is why we can’t take Men Right seriously. These men’s are angry at women, and looking for 2nd wife, or deadbeat dads, or just unhappy over alimony. All the while they are making the same mistake over and over again. We MGTOW don’t want anything to do with these jokers. We are boycotting the system. No more legal marriage, nor live-in relationship. We are not about hating women, we are about protecting men.

Peace Out.

 

Why You Should Never Date A Single Mother

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The only thing I can think of is Oh my G-D.

Daniel is a young man who is going to be 30 years old soon, and still lives with his parents, and he is trying to date a single mother.

Here is the caveat; He is British who is living in Japan. He is a walking talking caviar in Asia. He can date any girl he wants. The fact he decided to date a woman from online who is a single mother speak volumes of his own insecurity. This not meant to be an insult, it based on the account of his own and how he describe he post on YouTube.

I was going to review only one of his video, but I decided to add his next video to the review as well because after three date he is meeting her kid — doesn’t that all sound bit too rush. By the they met online — shouldn’t she take sometime — as well as he. Both of them don’t know anything about each other.

Not to bash a single mother, but most men don’t abandon their kids after marriage. He is rushing too fast, and she should also take some time before she introduce anther man to her daughter. Kids are very emotional and this can hurt their future development.

His YouTube I.D. is “Hiding in my room”. Later in his profile I learn that his name is Daniel. I am not trying to insult him, but c’mon.  By his own account he is one of those millennials who just start learning how to walk out side their parents home.

No secure job, future saving, and here he is getting into a mess that can alter his entire future. What if she decided to have her first kid because her husband was planning to leave her, and this trick did not work. What if she decided to get pregnant again. There are too many issues.

Healthy Relationship needs investment of Time.

This single mother works 8 hours a day, needs 2 to 3 hours times to travel from her work to daycare, and than home.

Where is the romance?

Before he worked out all of these things. He decided widen his mess by meeting the daughter of his girl friend.

His next video “I met my girlfriends daughter” is even more interesting. Again he complains that everyone is leaving negative comments on his video.

Well, denial if you put your life on YouTube you want other to comment on it. This is how you feed your ego.

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A youtuber name Jeff left a very good comment, and with this permission I am going to quote him in his entirety.

“Do you really need to be told why you shouldn’t date a single mother? Because you are talking a responsibility of another person. Also you are not mature enough. Your last video “Why I “cheated” on my Girlfriend – I’M ONLY HUMAN”.

Most of us who comments on your video do it because we have seen how you talk behave and react to little things. You don’t want to hurt another person while you are not emotionally mature enough.

Again the fact you have admitted on your last video that you have cheated on your girlfriend is pretty much a red flag. Kids are very sensitive to little thing and it can affect their entire future because you can ruin her mother.

Even this video you just admitted you are not mature, to make matter worst mother of the child is also emotionally unbalanced. Mothers are normally happy when their children are friendly and engaging.

Does it even occur to you that this might be the reason why her ex left her?

Last but not least you have no serious career, no future saving, nor you know what you’re going to be doing near future.

You are going to be 30 years old soon, and you still live with your parents.

We are not trying to hurt you, we are here to give you a decent and helpful advice. Take it with grain of salt — walk away before it too late.

This woman is a damage good, and you are grown up child who doesn’t even have money to buy a house on mortgage, let alone rent his own place.

You wanna take a responsibility of someone’s else kids when your parents are supporting you & feeding you. You are very naive if you think this will work out.

Finally, when you say things like I don’t care what commentators are saying. Then you all you have to do is disable comments section.

Otherwise don’t whine and complain when we review your lifestyle you are the one who is posting for public to see & hear, and review.

You put yourself on a fire pan, don’t crying when you feel the heat.”

We need to teach our fellow men why they should not date single mother. However, we also need to face the fact that most of them are not mature enough and they are only hooking up for sex, and single mother are lonely, desperate, and very insecure.

It seems to me “common sense” is not so common after all.  Perhaps Daniel needs learn from his own mistake, we can only hope the it’s not too late for him.

I stand by my advice that it is a very bad idea for him to date single mother. However, I wish him luck with his new relationship.

Reference:

Meeting my online Japanese girlfriend for the first time in Japan!

5 Reasons You Should Never Date A Single Mother

Paul Elam: Yes I Am A Bad Father!

I love Pawning these clowns!

Title of the article and the deliberately inflammatory picture is just beginning: As the attacks step up, so will I

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His blatant suggestions that he is mocked of being a Jew is total lie!

Where is the proof?

There isn’t any. Above hated poster was created by himself!

Original article never mention his Jewish background, in fact they did not even mention his kids real name, even though his daughter was more than willing to expose him! Oh by the way he never confirm nor denied that he was beating his own grandkids!

Buzz Feed’s article (which I will mention below) is a response by Asian American community because he stated Asian women cut penis, and white men should never breed with them!

He was only criticize for hatred towards women, and not taking care of his own kids.

In case you guys did not read his article + video blog he stated Asian women like to eat human penis!

“But the dangers of Asian women aren’t confined to those conniving young women just off the boat from Asialand. For there are Asians who live in the United States as well, and if you go for one of those you might end up with … brace yourself … MARGARET CHO. Or you might get your dick lopped off.”

No, seriously. Elam literally warns men who are considering “going Asian” that they might end up with someone like “feminist idiot and unfunny comedian Margaret Cho,” or “Twitter fembot Suey Park,” or even Catherine Kieu Becker, a California woman, originally from Vietnam, now serving life in prison for cutting off her estranged husband’s penis.

Search the internet in vain you will never find any racist comment from Asian community about his jewishness despite him firing the first shot.

Buzz feed article was a response to his racism and hypocrisy. They have shown with fact that he is a snake oil seller lynching his victims coming out of badly divorce outcome.

Even when he had public fight with his ex in front of a synagogue it was him who tried same trick back and forth.

Following article was written by AVFM member which he himself picked!

“Zionist Collaborator Donald Trumps Proves Himself a Pro Israeli …”

You guys can google the title above I am not going to help support racism. But I hope many of you get the idea.

Speaking of anti-semitism.

 Did you guys know he even used racism to destroy fellow rival MRM.

He girlfriend Janet Bloomfield (a married Nazi Women!) wrote many articles about such and such MRM are run by Jews! “Paul Elam Admits That Jews Run The MRM

Incidentally, vast majority of his members are pro nazi. It’s not for nothing AVFM is called The Group Thirteen Jewish collaborator in Warsaw Ghetto.

His blatant hypocrisy seeks no bounds.

So what the problem?

Despite their name Men’s Right is not about helping men. Racism & Extreme Right is the core of their organization, the rest is just a smoke screen.

He always throw mud on others, than he turns around pretend to be a victim. He is a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Remember he start race baiting.

Let’s not forget this the man who hate his kids more than life itself just admitted that he is a liar, and a bad father.

Let’s start with poisoning the mind of kids.

“My wife was indeed very enthusiastic about sex. The naivety of my youth also made me pretty blind to the fact that her sexual enthusiasm wasn’t limited to me.”

Your kids are adult, and she has kids of her own. She reads what you write, and so will her own kids. Why are you creating a toxic environment between you daugher and her mother not to mention against the grandkids.

“There was an unending string of affairs. By the time we separated Bonnie had been born and my ex was pregnant again. As the relationship ended, I learned of even more affairs from friends who were silent while we were together.”

You never wanted to do a DNA test. Every single one of your article is a proof — including this one!

“In 2005, Bonnie contacted me by mail, as is said in the article. We exchanged emails, and in the first one I told her that there was a very good chance I was not her biological father, but that I would very much like to meet her.”

First off she “never contacted him. You both met in synagogue. You screamed at her the very words you admitted stated at end of the paragraph.

Oh, I understand you don’t wanna tell your Christians White Supremacist followers of your racial background. The funny thing is you are a self advertising Jew, how many Aryan looks like Seinfeld’s Uncle?

Let’s not forget that little spat you have “I was not her biological father, but that I would very much like to meet her.” 

That itself shows your insensitivity to pain of another human being! If doubt that she is not your kid that why don’t you ask her for a DNA prior to the meet?

Once proved that you actually are the father you will make back payment of child support?

Are you also going to be part of her kids life, will you help her financially?

Yes?

“We talked on the phone a few times and made arrangements to meet.”

What is a point of a meeting with her if you are not sure of your lineage?

“When we did I saw a family resemblance, though looking back I am not sure if I was seeing what I wanted to see. I sure did not act on it.”

Again fool, DNA test.

“While we never got paternity testing, I was satisfied on meeting her that she was my biological daughter.”

Why not? Because they will give a legal leverage to get money out of you. This will also force this hidden issue into the public.

Now that she has kids of her own, she would want you to be part of their life.

“And yes, I did cry. Not for shame or personal remorse”

You got the Chutzpah for lying like a moron. But that’s all.

“It all could have been avoided with a simple paternity test that her mother would not allow.”

Why not do one now? Because you don’t wanna pay for financial support. It’s simple as that.

You don’t need to deal with you ex-wife, you daughter is more than amenable!

Again, because of money $$$$$$!

“She also alleges I had a drug and alcohol problem. There is some truth to that, though no more at all a problem than she herself had, including drinking and smoking PCP while she was pregnant with her daughter.”

One of the main step for alcoholics anonymous 10 steps is admit your fault, not balme it on other.

You’re still alcoholic, and quite possible on drugs.

“We were both wild, stupid kids. Sad but forgivable.”

When are capable of having kids you are an adult.

The fact you refuse to take care of your daugher, and be part of you grand kids. You are disgrace to a humanity.

Men’s Right & Conservatives upholding you as paragon of virtue only resolidify the fact entire entire community is morally bankrupt.

 

I will

White Supremacist in MGTOW

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Why would MGTOW 101 other White defend this racist poster? 

It’s one of the saddest fact but there so many racist in our community that it’s turning into an extremist organization.

MGTOW suppose to be about fighting right for men.

Where does it state fight for “white men”?

It does not.

However, you always see white mgtow talking about “immigration” evil muslim, and other nonsense within our community. There are other organizations for this concern. Why do they bring these issues and divide men?

Remember Men Right, and current AVFM:  it’s all about how “white men” are victim. All the issues related to men are put on the back burner.

It is because most of these men are from Men’s Right & conservatives parties, and they are trying to take over our community.

Recent videos of MGTOW 101; about immigration in sweden, and how “none white men” are raping “white women”. Another one defending PewDiePie & bashing Jewish culture. It’s pretty sick.

I agree with his fellow Australian blogger MGTOW 101 is another Sandman on the rise.

Ask yourself, how are they providing information to men who need to avoid getting married? These individual are toxic to our cause, and cancer to our community.

The is a trick to divide our community, and further proof that vast majority of conservatives will never come out old world view. Only white are human.

Have you notice conservatives & traditionalist always spend great deal of time tell and bashing non-white and defending their racist view, and outright denying that they are racist, and when force to face the fact (not all of us are like that).

Once again, how the hell bashing non-white men help mgtow cause.

Also notice MGTOW 101 states PewDiePie is not racist for hiring to indian to wave a poster about killing Jews.

The fact these white defend their fellow white of genocidal behavior, or protect Trump for being white proof that they are turning MGTOW into a pro white pro nazi organization.

Anyone defending these racist is a pure evil and there is no way around it.

Any MGTOW talks about immigration, bash immigration, and other “white causes” proves they are stuck in a matrix. This is old school mentality, men going back to plantation and women are tuck back home while men kill each other for golden vagina.

Don’t defend these men.

MGTOW is about boycotting marriage, and anyone who bring racial and inflammatory subject is an enemy of our community.

This is why even the most popular MGTOW of white background are hated by minorities, they can’t help themselves by bring immigration issue into our environment.

Why does StarDust/Thinking Page, even Razor Blade Kandy brough hatred towards Muslim, and even defended racist attitude against minorities — because there is part of them who lives in fear that they will become minorities like native america. After they can not deny the fact their ancestors murder and rape native population of most western nations (including Jews & Gypsies) in Europe.

Simple answer; most white do prefer to white only society, however our community is a avenue about their concern and their racist opinion.

Once against we are promoting end of legalize marriage, and these people harming our already weak community.

We need to expose them and even boycott them.

 

 

 

Acquired Taste and Relationship Part 1

I am typing/editing this on a touch screen with auto correction on. Feel free to comment on grammar mistake or anything else.

Just as many people flee from relationship as those who flock to it. 

Love can be an acquired taste.

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According to the dictionary. An “acquired taste” is something that most people don’t like at first, but slowly start to like more and more as they become used to it. Beer is a great example of “an acquired taste” because most people don’t like it the first time they taste it. But later they start to like the taste

One thing most people don’t realized that there is a reason our taste buds rejected the item initially. Our human body is smart enough to know what it need for survival; beer, coffee, tea and even smoking are not the items it really needed for survival. I am also guilty of some of these pleasures. Nonetheless, I do control the intake amount, and I don’t let it turn it into an addiction.

We size other person base on how they talk, how they behave, and body language etc. These give us a general idea if we want to maintain any contact with a new acquainted. Our attraction with opposite sex is usually the same way. It starts with an initial dance of courting, filtering, followed by interviewing (although we call it dating). If all things click we start boyfriend – girlfriend phase. This is when we start to observing the person, and watching for red flags. If all things are within reasonable bonds of tolerance and pleasurable we develop mutual trust, and even become emotionally contacted.

Sadly, bonding to a toxic relationship develops the same way. However, there are times we know the other person is very toxic, and like a frog in a boiling pot we suffer quietly, and drown ourselves in alcohol, drugs, or by simply overeating. Stockholm syndrome is a prime example.

As an mgtow I am not against dating, even a monogamous relationship. My rejection is toward legalized bondage – which is a government enforced marriage, and live-in relationship also protect by marriage mafia. Court system, lawyers, and the entire divorce industry is set against unhappy couple b pitching them against each other thereby making outrageous amount of money. That is why MGTOW movement was born. We are boycotting marriages, and financial havoc it spread upon single, and divorce men.

However, I am totally against Men’s rights because it is an unhealthy organization. The initial idea of the organization was about fighting for men’s rights. This means you can single, married, gay, straight etc. All the men get to pool their resources together and made public aware about men’s health issues such as colon cancer, and pressure the congress the remove the laws that is restricting our freedom, and running us financially through paternity fraud, alimony etc.

I start thinking about these issues when I came across Karen Straughan where she reveals the dark side of her. She tells us that the reason she join “AVFM” and other “Men Rights” group is because “she hates women”, I don’t just men “few females” I mean the entire gender. She goes as far as to say that she has no “female friends”, and she trolls around men because she feels “comfortable”.

Unlike most people I was never found of her and the reason is quite simple – her ideas are bizarre border line cultist, and way off the social norm. She hate other females just like Elliot Rodgers, and they ideas are almost identical. They both have manafisto! Go figure!

Take for example children benefit provided by government – in my area family who are earning less than $29,000 a years will be provided $500 per kid, this doesn’t even included income tax relief, as well as rent subsides.

What’s wrong with providing poor family with many kids lots financial support? Take From Claymore – Sydney, Australia welfare ghetto. These people have no incentive to be better, nor do they want to take responsibility of their own action. Some would say “what about the children?

Listen, adult who cannot feed themselves should not have kids – it is the most selfish thing they can do. So it is remarkable that same irresponsible loons go around judging other those who don’t want to have kids!

Let’s look at another poor community from USA. When you would think about poverty in USA naturally you would think of blacks, or immigrant in big cities like New York City, or Los Angeles. However the poorest part of USA is central Appalachian Mountains, mostly Anglo-Saxon, and Scottish, and these people live under $2.00 a day. War of poverty and other excitable label don’t change the fact that every adult is responsible of their action.

Most of these people in USA, and Australia can move anywhere in respected nation and they can get a job, and have a decent life. Yet the fact is they prefer to live where they are because they are given free money (i.e. Welfare), tax break, and vast majority of them don’t pay rent, and can even get free groceries. As a famous adage goes; give a man a fish and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime.

To support the gigantic begging system – this includes large corporation getting tax break, bankruptcy protection, and virtually every single politicians, and judges. This is why we need to steer the ship in a different direction – let every free person be in charge of their own action. If some dumb couple are making too many babies, and then they should feed them themselves, or put their kids in adaption, and such individuals penalize, also be stopped from producing!

 

 

The End of MGTOW.CO

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Like everything else in this universe death cometh to us all.

Alexsander Bar Bar created a website for MGTOW community, and now it bites the dust. Like most MGTOW sites it had a very short lifespan. It’s a pretty sad outlook of our community.  It could’ve been worst, it could have turned into a nut case neo nazi site like “mgtow.com” bashing democrats and praising Trump, and even Adolf Hitler!

Happily Alexsader does have a personal blog, and sharing his wisdom.

We should not forget why mgtow exist, as it is maturing it is also attracting loons like moth to a flame

For the record I don’t support either parties.

MGTOW.com is own by AVFM – Ironically named A Voice for Men aka A Voice of Feminize Men. Both sites are run by married women! Although Paul Elam was the co-founder. His biggest accomplishments is not paying child support for his only daughter, and mailing her stories about  false accusation and circumcision, and how it hurts men!

He makes Donald Trump looks like Mexicans loving flaming liberal!

MGTOW is anti-marriage community. We don’t bash marriage for it “used” to stand for; we are against it because it is a government run enterprise.

However, like most young revolutionary we have to set our eyes bit higher than it is, and we ought to look up within ourselves.

MGTOW litterally means “Men Going Their Own Way”.

This means:

  • Boycotting marriages
  • Livein Relationship
  • Fighting Men’s Rights
  • Fighting Traditionalist

Notice: I did not mention Feminism. The main reason MGTOW was born are alimony, paternity fraud, and outrageous amount it cost to divorce someone, and then you lose all the money you had prior to marriage, and you may end up paying for rest of your life to your ex – the lifetime alimony….

This financially slavery bill was legally passed because of traditionalist, this includes liberals, conservatives, who supported the feminist agenda – they went as far as to ban/stopped DNA test before man’s name is printed on birth certificate.

However, marriage mafia was always penalizing men long before feminist, massive amount of child support for poor family who have more kids than they can afford.

Why should a single man or even a woman support poor family who can make enough money yet they know that by popping multiple kids they will get government government subsidies, and even multi-generational welfare.

We have laws against stealing, and robbing, yet by miracle of bipartisan politician have setup a system were lazy people can stealing our money through tax enforcement just like they are.

It’s use to be a rule that if you can not afford it than you should not buy it, same ought to apply to having kids. When poor families who can not even afford to pay their own rent, yet they make babies like rabbits even though they will bring their financial situation well below poverty level.

Government should be educating them, not taking the money of well to do individual and share with these selfish people. This is a institutionalized robbery.This is why we different with Traditionalist & Men’s Right.

Men’s right are our enemies because vast majority of them have married wives working in Men’s right organization – I am not talking about flipping papers, or make coffees. No right on the bench chair, and monitoring discussion, and even banning men who question about alimony, paternity fraud issues.

Of course they ladies bash anyone who question validity of marriage, or any talk about mgtow.

Men’s Rights is a cancer that is destroying us from within, and there shall be not support provided by anyone.

So where does MGTOW stand?

Well, we do have some YouTube channels like barbar, and sandman. Nonetheless, we need a community the will help upcoming brother to band together and spark the revolution.

Reference:

Alexsander Bar Bar Personal Blog

AVFM: Paul Elam Deadbeat Dad

 

 

 

 

Marriage Agreement

My best friend asked me for an advice about a marriage agreement — a very close friend.

Now he knows I am a mgtow. He likes his girl, but wonder what can he do to protect himself if relationship fail, and divorce is the only option.

I will remind everyone here, as I have to my friend.

It is not women who are at fault for divorce being a nightmare for most men. It is the law system. Government does not want to pay welfare to women with kids, and provided housing subsidies. Also lawyer and judges make money out of the mess — not to mention each unique case brings them closer to their political ambition.

It’s not for nothing mot politicians were lawyer like Bill Clinton, even Barak Obama was president of the Harvard Law before soaking his feet with democratic party.

So what kind of an advice a Mr. Mgtow can give to a Mr. Right who want to be married?

Marriage without a financial agreement is a total failure — very few women will agree to it .

Prunup is also very important.

About prenuptial agreement:

Make sure you do it before engagement. Get a lawyer, make sure you both have lawyer — and it is recorded in a video, and your lawyer confirm that she under NO PRESSURE to sign it. Also you both will

WAIT almost a year before getting married!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This way she can’t say during divorce that she was “under pressure” trust me most prenup are overthrown if sign after engagement, or week before marriage.

Financial agreement (a must as well!)

Writer down everything on an excel sheet.

50/50 SPLIT regardless of who make more money.

If she or he can’t pay for half of the expense than shrink it down to what both you can!!!!!!!! Perhaps you should think hard if she asking/forcing to pay for – say $200 cable bill?

If your partner can not afford half of the expense than remove it from the budget. Period!

Both parties should be saving around 20% of their gross income. Putting money into a a retirement is not counted as 20%

Also if she has credit card debt, or bankruptcy than back off – and RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mortgage, house insurance (or rental) cable, grocery, as well as annual travel expense will be joint If the car or cars are being used jointly same account (or each pay for his/her car)

Have another saving account with same bank where both of save enough money to survive six months if either of you lose job, or physical injury.

Buying a house:

My personal advice is that you don’t buy a house. It takes 20 or 30 years to pay off the mortgage.

Between hydro bill, housing repair, insurance, not to mention property tax, you are losing money. Unless you can rent half of the property — don’t bother.

Even so you still wanna wait at least five or even ten years before you make such decision. Divorce get messy with property.

If your down payment is over 30% of the property than it’s good — also rent the basement to offshoot expense — trust me there are lot of things come up, and you would not even think about.

Right after buying a house, my property needed a repair — even though previous owner had change the roof — repair did not have any warranty,  adn than I had a basement leakage, followed buy basement beam needing a replacement.

All of that within span of one year of buying a house. I managed to offshoot most of the loss by renting the basement — which itself require turning it into an apartment.

This also means noise reduction for first floor — new carpet — noise dampening foam etc..

Buy a bungalow with rentable basement.

What this means is you have to have at least $30,000 spare money on top of down payment + lawyer fees, and moving cost, and changing address cost etc…

Marriage is pretty stressful in the beginning — it requires “adjusting” to another person, even if you were living with them, it will go through another change after marriage.

Don’t add financial stress on top it.

Joint Expense Account:

By Joint I mean you both transfer “required” money into “expense” account, not your salary, or business profit should be in a separate account — only access by you alone.

DON’T SHARE CREDIT CARDS —

REDUCE LIMIT TO AROUND $500

Sometime it’s better if you have kids with someone before who are serious about having a “legally binding” marriage.

Wait two years before you have kids!

Most women “quit” job, and you will be left holding a bag of expense.

DON’T HAVE CREDIT CARS!, AND ALSO CHECK HER CREDIT SCORE! OR BETTER YET HAVE THEM BEFORE LEGALLY GETTING MARRIED! (FINANCIAL AGREEMENT IS A MUST!!!)

If find it intimidating discussing everything above than marriage is not for you.

Biggest failure in marriage is money so think hard and think twice.

Most of us should not get marriage period!

As for marriage don’t spend thousands of dollars, and never ever borrow money to get marriage. This include honeymoon as well.

Best marriage is those where both partner live within their means, and don’t have credit cards, or debt.

Divorce Update & Advice

I did not get a chance to tell everyone that my divorce has been finalized, and FREE.

I am the primary person who takes care of my kids.

My divorce drama was nasty, but it reached its conclusion in a very short time. Also, it did not financially drain me too much — still cost over $10,000.

I will continue to help anyone who wants divorce.

Even this depressing election did not dim my happy mood. I will also expand this blog to add few other subjects as time goes by.

Right now my simple advice is this. If relationship is toxic, and physically abusive leave the place ASAP, and file for divorce no matter how much it’s gonna cost you.

Violence in relationship is an end of the road. Even if your partner apologize, and talked about “counselling” just leave, leave, and leave.

Don’t bother staying for kids. Kids do worst when they stay parents fighting rather than helping kids in their struggle, and help them achieve something in their life.

You can do better, you are better, and therefore you deserve better.