The only thing I can think of is Oh my G-D.
Daniel is a young man who is going to be 30 years old soon, and still lives with his parents, and he is trying to date a single mother.
Here is the caveat; He is British who is living in Japan. He is a walking talking caviar in Asia. He can date any girl he wants. The fact he decided to date a woman from online who is a single mother speak volumes of his own insecurity. This not meant to be an insult, it based on the account of his own and how he describe he post on YouTube.
I was going to review only one of his video, but I decided to add his next video to the review as well because after three date he is meeting her kid — doesn’t that all sound bit too rush. By the they met online — shouldn’t she take sometime — as well as he. Both of them don’t know anything about each other.
Not to bash a single mother, but most men don’t abandon their kids after marriage. He is rushing too fast, and she should also take some time before she introduce anther man to her daughter. Kids are very emotional and this can hurt their future development.
His YouTube I.D. is “Hiding in my room”. Later in his profile I learn that his name is Daniel. I am not trying to insult him, but c’mon. By his own account he is one of those millennials who just start learning how to walk out side their parents home.
No secure job, future saving, and here he is getting into a mess that can alter his entire future. What if she decided to have her first kid because her husband was planning to leave her, and this trick did not work. What if she decided to get pregnant again. There are too many issues.
Healthy Relationship needs investment of Time.
This single mother works 8 hours a day, needs 2 to 3 hours times to travel from her work to daycare, and than home.
Where is the romance?
Before he worked out all of these things. He decided widen his mess by meeting the daughter of his girl friend.
His next video “I met my girlfriends daughter” is even more interesting. Again he complains that everyone is leaving negative comments on his video.
Well, denial if you put your life on YouTube you want other to comment on it. This is how you feed your ego.
A youtuber name Jeff left a very good comment, and with this permission I am going to quote him in his entirety.
“Do you really need to be told why you shouldn’t date a single mother? Because you are talking a responsibility of another person. Also you are not mature enough. Your last video “Why I “cheated” on my Girlfriend – I’M ONLY HUMAN”.
Most of us who comments on your video do it because we have seen how you talk behave and react to little things. You don’t want to hurt another person while you are not emotionally mature enough.
Again the fact you have admitted on your last video that you have cheated on your girlfriend is pretty much a red flag. Kids are very sensitive to little thing and it can affect their entire future because you can ruin her mother.
Even this video you just admitted you are not mature, to make matter worst mother of the child is also emotionally unbalanced. Mothers are normally happy when their children are friendly and engaging.
Does it even occur to you that this might be the reason why her ex left her?
Last but not least you have no serious career, no future saving, nor you know what you’re going to be doing near future.
You are going to be 30 years old soon, and you still live with your parents.
We are not trying to hurt you, we are here to give you a decent and helpful advice. Take it with grain of salt — walk away before it too late.
This woman is a damage good, and you are grown up child who doesn’t even have money to buy a house on mortgage, let alone rent his own place.
You wanna take a responsibility of someone’s else kids when your parents are supporting you & feeding you. You are very naive if you think this will work out.
Finally, when you say things like I don’t care what commentators are saying. Then you all you have to do is disable comments section.
Otherwise don’t whine and complain when we review your lifestyle you are the one who is posting for public to see & hear, and review.
You put yourself on a fire pan, don’t crying when you feel the heat.”
We need to teach our fellow men why they should not date single mother. However, we also need to face the fact that most of them are not mature enough and they are only hooking up for sex, and single mother are lonely, desperate, and very insecure.
It seems to me “common sense” is not so common after all. Perhaps Daniel needs learn from his own mistake, we can only hope the it’s not too late for him.
I stand by my advice that it is a very bad idea for him to date single mother. However, I wish him luck with his new relationship.