Writer/Actor/Director Mindy Kaling whines that she can’t find the “right” guy. Yes, we have heard this song over and over again. However, she is a perfect perfect illustration of a modern day woman.
What make her case even more interesting that her parents immigrated in States so her behavior ought to be more “feminine” unlike born and raised American girls.
Her personality proves that traditionalist are in denial. Importing women from foreign land doesn’t mean that they won’t take advantage of the current system.
Like most career women this wonderful lady thinks that she can’t find a “good man” because of her career. When she “does”, she thinks: I will let you read what says…
“I think that when I go on dates, there’s this expectation that I’m going to have 11 martinis and pass out and spend the night really soon.”
Back of her book there is a picture of a heart. Heart is occupied with numerous things. Interestingly enough there are two sections for Nice Guys (small room), Handsome Jerks (huge room).
Could it be because?
You think all men wanna get into your pants?
You call yourself Misogynist?
You only go after superficial jerks.
You act like a 20 years old, yet you’re going to be 40 years old?
In Friends sitcom there is a poster (above) in Ross apartment. Which says in Russian “In Order to Build You have to Know, In order to Know you have to learn”.
Same technique apply to relationship, being a jerk, uncaring person won’t take you so far. My advice for Mindy is to look deep in herself before pointing figure on men.
It’s not us, it’s you!
The Mindy Project S05E04: Mindy Lahiri Is a Misogynist – 25th Oct 2016